Males and Females

[Vimana]

Fuck that, bitches adapt to you! Get her in your karate class and train her in the art of what you like. Women are followers/the fuckees. I'm gonna create an app called Mould a Hoe

You must meet the wrong women. I find it so sexy when a woman does her own thing and isn't worried about trying to please everyone.

 

[KafkaX]

^ Yeah that entirely possible.

And Im attracted to women that are fucking crazy.

It shocks me that you cannot find a sexy female with similar tastes in LA. It's, like, the 2nd biggest fucking city in the US. You always tell me that I would be a catch in the city because I jerk off to fantasy lit and Midnight and I'm an ugly fucker.

Im just secretly trying to get you to move out here, bruh.

Fuck that, bitches adapt to you! Get her in your karate class and train her in the art of what you like. Women are followers/the fuckees. I'm gonna create an app called Mould a Hoe

You also need to write a book on women. I would be the first to buy it.

 

[Master_Yoda77]

So basically it's a real life version of Julian's bar/trailer in TPB.

Not quite as cool and there were no strippers, but yeah.

 

[The Butt]

Jesus christ that still sounds awesome.

Makes me wanna start a bar in my apartment.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

You must meet the wrong women. I find it so sexy when a woman does her own thing and isn't worried about trying to please everyone.

I've been with all types really. And they're all goofy. They have no clue what they want. I'll tell you what they want - they want you to figure it out. I'm not talking about her pleasing everyone. I'm talking about her pleasing you and learning you. Sure she's going to do her own thing, shit you want her to, who wants a girl around all the time ugh.
All I'm saying is that it starts with you and ends with you. When it comes down to it they want you to guide the relationship and that means training her in what you want and like.

Guys like you, you're like seals dating sharks. Women are abusive and it's not their fault, it's your fault.

 

[Dak]

Jimmy tryna force feed the red pill to the forum.

 

[Jimmy... Dead.]

Nah I have more respect and empathy than that. Plus those guys aren't very logical.

 

[SentinelSlain]

I think I'm fully burnt into singledom now. I don't care about women that much now. I'm still young so I obviously masturbate, but I don't have any pussies on any pedestals.

 

[Matt]

Just put the pussy on the chainwax.

 

[waif]

So my woman and I started off as non-monogamous and that was pretty clutch but for a while now she's insisted on monogamy. And I love her, so I went with it, but lately it's been bugging me. I'd feel like an asshole leaving her over it but it's not like the thought hasn't crossed my mind. I wouldn't be railing chicks left and right or anything, it's just nice to see a hot chick and know that theoretically I could be all up on that.

 

[KafkaX]

So the open relationship was to just lure you in...Once she knew she had you she pulled the exclusivity card...

Smooth.

And somewhat expected.

 

[Zephyrus]

I wouldn't assume that desires for open relationships are deliberate traps into exclusive relationships like that. It's natural to develop those feelings if the two partners turn out to be compatible in the longterm. I think her desire for monogamy stems from a fear you'll develop those feelings for someone else you were sleeping with.

 

[waif]

Yeah I don't believe it was a trap. She honestly thought she wouldn't mind at the start. I guess one of the other things that bothers me is she's a lot more attached than I am. I like some alone time and I feel a bit smothered. Might have to have a Serious Talk or something, but that means finding a way to articulate my feelings that won't unduly upset her and I'm not great at that shit.

 

[SentinelSlain]

I need to rethink how I interact with other people.

 

[tagradh]

Melt your face and then each day you can draw a new one on the waxy canvas. It won't matter if you piss anyone off.

 

[Carpe Mortem]

Yeah I don't believe it was a trap. She honestly thought she wouldn't mind at the start. I guess one of the other things that bothers me is she's a lot more attached than I am. I like some alone time and I feel a bit smothered. Might have to have a Serious Talk or something, but that means finding a way to articulate my feelings that won't unduly upset her and I'm not great at that shit.

Did she ever get with other dudes? Because if not, you should have known better.

Its kinda weird a chick is cool with that. Or a guy for that matter. Good luck finding the chick who feels the same way you do without having low self esteem or being likewise flawed. Exclusivity tends to just make a relationship seem more special, IMO. A special little secret of dirty sex and vulnerable thoughts between two special little people.

 

[CiG]

Open relationships are a complicated thing, I feel that if you want to fuck around, don't be in a relationship of any category, because relationships lead to strong emotions.
It'll end up being a giant clusterfuck that nobody wins in.

 

[waif]

I've met some couples who were successfully open. It takes a certain type. I've come to the conclusion that I myself am reasonably well-suited for non-monogamy. I'd hoped that my woman would grow secure enough in our relationship for us to re-open it but I suspect this will not be the case.

It's not like our sex life is inadequate in any way. A lot of people would kill for it. So the notion of breaking up over this seems ridiculous at best, but at the same time I feel like it has the potential to eat at me.

 

[rms]

Wow a man who is for a polygamous relationship. You are definitely in the minority.

 

[KafkaX]

Waif, sounds like you just need to talk to her. I know you said its difficult to communicate without hurting her feelings, but if you dont, yeah this will eat away at you and it will cause much more pain down the road.

If shes the right woman for you, she will look past the communication barrier you have. But you need to talk to her about it.

/endofdiscussion