Males and Females
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The Ozzman
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I think people who just act careless generally are pretty stupid tbh. I agree that everyone should be cautious in everything they do. The trouble with me is I overthink shit a lot and I end up being too cautious and not making a decision in a timely enough manner
CiG
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Just work on being decisive man.
This will sound contradictory but the best way to start down a path of decisiveness is to act rash a few times in the beginning until you build up enough confidence in yourself to address things directly in the moment from then on. Once you know you have it in you to be direct, you can start adding much more forethought to your situations.
This will sound contradictory but the best way to start down a path of decisiveness is to act rash a few times in the beginning until you build up enough confidence in yourself to address things directly in the moment from then on. Once you know you have it in you to be direct, you can start adding much more forethought to your situations.
The Ozzman
Melted by feels
There's a reason our unofficial family motto is 'Make a decision and live with it' heh
I will say that it's easier to make the decisions as I get older but I think it's just through previous experience that I have the ability to think more quickly on my feet
zabu of nΩd
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Talked to the girl tonight - told her that I don't want to break up but that I'm stressed about the relationship and I need space + time to think. Seemed like the best thing to say at the time. She's probably feeling like shit now, which worries me since she has bad depression. We agree that there's something special between us, but in my mind there's a number of reasons this probably won't work.
I do think I need time to just recover from the recent drama and let my head clear before I say/do anything more decisive.
I do think I need time to just recover from the recent drama and let my head clear before I say/do anything more decisive.
CiG
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Do you truly want to be with her or do you not want to be by yourself? I think if more men opened themselves up to this question they'd have an easier go of things.
The Ozzman
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Deep, man. I've never really heard anyone put it as succinctly as that
zabu of nΩd
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I've already asked myself that, and I'm fine being by myself (even if it would suck in the near term). There is something special about her which makes me want to give her another chance.
no country for old wainds
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sometimes it's hard to believe you're the same age as me and not 50+ lol
I don't care what people do, but when I have a problem because of someone elses actions when don't even care about the person to begin then there's a problem. I've been careless and done some shady things, but not all the time, not everyday, I don't make a habit of it, I don't do something stupid and not think about what I did like it's it's ok like some people, some people shit on everyone they know and they come right back, it's funny.
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CiG
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EspaDa
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CiG
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No because I'd likely just make the same exact mistakes over again, considering much of a person's faults stem from their upbringing. You'd have to reset the world quite a ways back to even have a chance of changing anything.
The Ozzman
Melted by feels
What if you knew what you do now about the situation and could use your knowledge to change it?
CiG
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The Ozzman
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CiG
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arg
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My life with women is simpler. Is she hot? Will she let me fuck her for money? Done!
EspaDa
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mutantllama
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Started talking to this mistress on Fetlife recently. I'm hoping it ends up turning into a meetup at some point, unfortunately she lives across the country so it would take a little bit of planning for that to happen. I've wanted to be dominated since I was 14 and unfortunately the few girls I've been with have been vanilla or on the more submissive side. What CiG said about it being exhausting is true, it's like I feel like I have to change who I am just to enjoy getting my dick sucked. I don't care about getting my fucking dick sucked or sticking my dick in some girls ass. I want to lick a pair of high heels, have my face trampled, be degraded, be ridden like a pony while my ass is being beaten, inhale her farts and hold it in like a hit of weed, now that's the shit that gets me going!
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