using yourself as a template doesn't work
using myself as a template for example
one could argue that the men who fuck "supermodels" are secretly attracted to "whooty models" and that they are all being masochistic
my sexual atraction to females older than myself could be used to say that all females are secretly cougars and that female teachers having sex with highschool students is totally "normal"
of course a modern person would instantly know that those 2 ideas are totally bullshit, but people alive when Freud published his work, those people actually believed him,
they believed him because they no longer believed the previously existing model of the mind and he filled a void of giving people something contradictory to believe in
this is like the modern-day blue-eyed-blonde Americans that suddenly become Muslim because they suddenly realize that Christianity is totally bullshit