haha I'm in the same boat!! I
've been hitting the gym for the past 2 months, but haven't seen much of a change in weight really, just started getting more toned. Care to divulge some information on this "stuff"? Give me a shout if you make any progress, Im not really getting anywhere so far
back on topic, +1 to wolfe, try finding someone to run with, it definitely helps keep the motivation strong. Also stick to whatever program you set up and don't try and cut corners or get lazy and skip excercises. Good luck!
There's your problem.
Give it another 2 years at least before you start to see some serious change in your physique.
I've been lifting for 6 months now and while my legs a looking a little muscular already, my upper body not so much.
Yeah, I've managed to increase my upper arm size from around 11.5 inches to about 13 inches, but that's basically going from really really thin to about average
Also, the "I eat so much but can't gain weight" thing is a piss poor excuse.
The solution to your problem? Eat more.
You eat over maintenance, you gain weight. Not rocket science (not trying to be a dick here, but just putting it bluntly and to the point).
Plenty of people have super fast metabolisms meaning they have to eat over 5000 calories a day to increase their muscle mass, but they get it done, because they are committed and have the discipline.
If it means sometimes you gotta eat beyond the point of feeling full, then do it. I've had to do it many times before, knowing short term suffering could bring long term gain.
I'm lucky in that respect that I have to eat only about 3000 calories a day (which is still a lot though) to increase muscle mass.
I also have piss poor genetics for building muscle/strength though.
Almost all people with a super fast metabolism over estimate how much they eat. They think they eat heaps, because maybe they eat twice as much as their mom, but in reality a lot of these "I EAT SO MUCH AND CAN'T GAIN WEIGHT" guys are barely hitting 2500 calories a day.
I started off deadlifting 20kgs (44lbs), which is EXTREMELY weak for a beginning. I can now deadlift 120Kgs six months later, despite my poor genetics for muscle mass/strength building. Yes having great genetics would have helped a lot, but point is you can still make great progress if you bust your ass and stay consistent.