You know what, Sparky, I wasn't even going to go into this any further, but you've caught me in a mood so I'm just going to put it all out there for you
Yikes! Ok, well at least I know now which part you took offense to...oddly I actually thought that I was being more asshole-ish about the "drawing boundaries between metal and non-metal" thing than the "semi-racist" thing. And yeah, I said "
semi-racist". SEMI!!! That's gotta count for something, right?
I don't think you're a racist. I can't, because I don't know you at all. I'm only judging what you write. What you wrote contained some stuff that could be viewed as racist. You don't need to explain your life story to me to prove that you aren't a racist. You know yourself far better than I ever could, so please just write me off as an idiot who doesn't know what he's talking about. My opinion of some words you wrote isn't worth getting all riled up about.
There were two components in what you wrote, each maybe-slightly-quasi-racist, which together added up to semi-racist.
1) "Wigger". It's simply a contraction of the phrase "white my pals". If you're uncomfortable using the latter phrase, the former isn't really an improvement. I understand how language works and that you didn't invent the word, and you or your audience are likely not even conscious of its origin when using it. But I think it *is* something worth being conscious of, so I thought I'd point it out. Some time ago there was a kerfuffle here when White Sox manage Ozzie Guillen used the word "gay" to describe something he didn't like. I don't think Ozzie is homophobic, and don't think actual homosexual behavior was anywhere near his mind when using the term; the word had taken on its own meaning, synonymous with "stupid". But tracing its origin, it implies that the user thinks gay people are stupid/bad/etc. Since then, though I haven't tried to eliminate it completely, I've at least become more conscious of *my* use of the term "gay", and was happy to have the Ozzie incident prod me into giving it some thought. I very well may be the only person in the world who hears a (minor) alarm bell when reading the word "wigger"; if so, don't waste another thought on the matter. I'm not offended by it, I only wanted to raise the idea of how the word (and by extension, you) can be perceived by others.
2) This one actually contributed more to my "semi-racist" interpretation: in your initial post you used the words hip-hop, wigger, and 'urban' (which when in quotes I always interpret as a euphemism for "black") to draw your artificial borders around "metal". That seemed like a suspicious line to me since as Zod pointed out, there are presumably all sorts of other non-metal elements that you allow into your definition of "metal", so what other rationale was there for drawing your line at the inner-city-limits? Since then you have clarified by stating that it's really "uneducated, aggressive, Neanderthal-esque approach" where you draw the line, which is of course not racist at all (except towards the poor Neanderthals!) And even originally, my suspicion wasn't the active "I hate black people" usage of the word "racist", it was the passive "I think about things in terms of race" usage.
If we were all based in another country, e.g. England, there would be some other word I could say that would rile you up, I don't know, something like 'chav' for one.
Yeah, that certainly wouldn't have had the tainted etymology (at least not one that I'm aware of!), though of course as you point out, then no one would have known what you were talking about.
I dislike the uneducated, aggressive, Neanderthal-esque approach to life's issues ACROSS THE BOARD
I completely agree with you there, and we are entirely of the same mind in what we like and dislike.
This is much of the reason why I have no interest in Cannibal Corpse, Manowar, or Pantera, all bands that are aggressive and Neanderthal-esque. But it if you say that those bands are not metal because of those aspects, everyone will find your definition of "metal" useless and you won't be able to communicate.
There are simply way too many exceptions to the "metal is for intellectuals"/"hardcore+hip-hop is for Neanderthals" dichotomy for that model to hold any value.
Neil