MAN, this is a loaded topic if there ever was one. It was Linus who once said, "There are three things in life I've learned never to discuss: Religion, Politics, and the Great Pumpkin." Well, maybe Charlie Brown's best buddy was right to some extent. Religion is something that most people feel so strongly about that there is NO changing their opinion one iota. It usually leads to an "I'm right, you're wrong, and here's why..." type of argument and whether or not you believe or do not believe, each side will be just as firm on why he or she feels as he does.
Well, I am certainly not out to change the world or change anyone's mind, but like all the posts before me, I am compelled to speak my thoughts. So with a fresh pinch of Copenhagen in, here goes:
I am a Christian. I like to think that I am a TRUE Christian, though, and not somebody who goes around forcing my views down everyone's throat. For one thing, I am not always a GOOD Christian, and I am not a hypocrite. The worst thing a Christian can do is "preach" and then show their ass. Second, lots of folks are immediately defensive and confrontational when you try to tell them about Christianity. I find it much easier and much more EFFECTIVE to LEAD BY EXAMPLE. In other words, if you were to spend time with me in any situation and say, "Gee Uncle Ted...you are always positive, etc. etc. etc. and any time I see you in a tough spot, you always make the best of it. How do you do it?" THEN and only then would I say, "Well, it's because of my faith. My faith carries me through."
Too many so called Christians try and push their views on the world and then show that they are just as bad or worse in character as their non believing peers.
I'm here to tell you boys and girls...Uncle Ted is a SINNNNNNNNNNNER! I have sinned, will sin, and will always sin. There's no way around it. The Bible says that ALL have sinned and fallen short from the glory of God. The only perfect sinless person was Jesus, and even HE was tempted. The Bible also says that all of our good works, no matter HOW good are still as filthy rags to the Lord. The only thing that allows us to be saved and to escape hell is God's GRACE. "For by Grace you are saved through FAITH, and that not of yourselves, it is a gift from GOD. Not by works....so that no man can boast." Ya hear that?? It doesn't matter how good a person ya are, it still means Jack if you dont' accept the gift of GRACE. Through FAITH and FAITH alone.
Now, I should say that I don'e necessarily believe in religion. I believe in a RELATIONSHIP with Jesus. In other words, I think you should try to live by the SPIRIT and not by works. Doing good just because you think you SHOULD do good is not the same as doing good because you WANT to do good because you're glorifying God to do so. Does that make sense?
FAITH
HOPE
LOVE
I think you have to have FAITH in God and in his grace through Jesus. This gives you HOPE that when you sin and fall short, you know you're forgiven, and that God still LOVES you. That's my equation, at least. You do the best you can and trust God to take care of the rest. That's all you can do....
There are two movies that I think really give good insight to the whole "thing" between God and even the Devil and how things work. BRUCE ALMIGHTY and THE DEVILS' ADVOCATE. Both of these movies make a good illustration that most of the things that happen in life happen because of FREE WILL. Good or bad. When Jim Carrey becomes "God" for a few days in Bruce Almighty , he is told that the only rules are that he can do no harm with his powers, and HE CANNOT CHANGE FREE WILL. Sam in the Devils' Advocate. Al Pacino plays Lucifer, and he basically tells a hopeless Kianue Reeves that the devil doesn't make you do anything. He merely sets the stage and then it's your FREE WILL to decide what to do. So I think a lot of the tragedies in life that people blame God for have to do not with God's will but because of somebody else's FREE WILL to do evil. Again, that's just my take.
The tricky part is this...."Well, then Ted, you dumbass", you might say,"does that mean that if I don't believe in Jesus then I'm going to hell?" I dunno. I suppose that some Christians might say absolutely. You are going to hell. But I am no scholar and I only think what I think. Which reminds me of a great joke..."What's the difference between a Christian and an Atheist? An atheist says 'there ain't no hell', ...a Christian says, 'The Hell There Ain't!!!' Anyways, I just don't know. I think that if you do know of Jesus and don't accept him, than it could be very hot for you in the afterlife, but who's to say....
Also, another tough one to sort out for non believers is this: "But what about bad things that happen to innocent people that is NOT a result of somebody else's free will?" Again, I dunno. This falls under the category of Faith. When a loved one dies, or is stricken with a disease like cancer or worse, I think a lot of folks would think, WHY???? And I know I would myself! Why do children get sick? Innocent children. Why do great people get hit with hard blows...I just don't know. It's sad. And again, I don't think it can be explained. You just have to have Faith that God will carry you through and that one day (even if it's in the afterlife) the sorrows will heal and there'll be peace.
I will close with this. I believe Religion, or my RELATIONSHIP with God to be a lot like a boat. Think of three boats: A rowboat, an all inclusive Cruiseship, and a sailboat.
If you set out to sea in a ROW BOAT, you will spend all your time and energy trying to get somewhere based on how hard you row. You may make it a few feet or even a couple miles, but the tides and waves can always set you back and you may even crash back on the shore.
When you set out to sea on a CRUISESHIP, you get all the amenities. You live in luxury and eat drink and be merry for as long as possible. This all seems like fun for a while but eventually you'll get fat, complacent, and long for home.
When you set out to sea on a SAILBOAT, however, you are relying on the WIND. You have the boat and all your equipment at the ready, but you gotta have WIND to get anywhere. And there is always just enough WIND to get you where you need to go if you are ready to harness it and steer it accordingly. I think that God is the wind.
God gives food to all the birds. But he does not put it in the nest.
That's my take on Christianity. He's given us all we need, even salvation from sin, death and the gift of everlasting life. All we have to do is try our best and trust Him to take care of the rest.
RELATIONSHIP - Not Religion
FAITH
HOPE
LOVE
God bless you and yours
Ted