hmmm....dont know, mabey communion and the Oracle by symphony x? its just a beautiful floaty song. theres alot of songs that i like more, but their not good to play for a funeral...imagine a cryptopsy song in a funeral, that would be funny
"Sun That Never Sets" by neurosis, the lyrics are beautiful and the music is a perfect little dirge, its almost as if the song was meant for a funeral.
Or, seriously...King Crimson - One Time. I reckon that song would make every eye in the house teary, even if they didn't give a fuck about me when I was alive...which would most likely be the case.
i actually sent a friend 'harvest' for his friends funeral. he asked me if i had any suitable songs... (this was before D1 and D2 were out), and he knows full well what type of music i like...
I've already asked my friends and family to play Still Day Beneath the Sun at my funeral. I mean, c'mon, its family-friendly and the lyrics are just made for it. TBYF was my pick before I heard Still Day Beneath the Sun...but I prefer the latter (for a funeral anyways).
For years it was always "Ambition" by New Model Army, but in 1997 it occured to me that "Glory To The Brave" by HammerFall would make a good one.
I went to a friend's funeral last year and there was a small amount of keyboard based Cradle Of Filth (cannot remember which song now) played as we left the chapel... it was stopped very precisely to avoid upsetting older family members.