and as for the original question by hitler:
well, hitler, you definitely asked the right person
here are my recommendations:
i wont suggest any anathema and antimatter. those you already know.
björk - bachelorette
bob dylan - one more cup of coffee
counting crows - colorblind
duran duran - come undone
elton john - blessed
goo goo dolls - black balloon
goo goo dolls - iris
goo goo dolls - name
jewel - foolish games
john lennon - real love
john lennon - jealous guy
katatonia - sulfur
katatonia - this punishment
katatonia - instrumental
katatonia - day
lauren christy - color of the night
lighthouse family - ain't no sunshine
lighthouse family - once in a blue moon
lighthouse family - sun in the night
lighthouse family - high
lighthouse family - lost in space
porcupine tree - nine cats
REM - gardening at night
REM - the parakeet
roxette - anyone
simply red - holding back the years
songs: ohia - how to be perfect men
songs: ohia - the ocean's nerves
songs: ohia - the rules of absence
the cranberries - when you're gone
the cranberries - linger
the cure - lovesong
tracy chapman - fast car
the verve - the drugs don't work
transatlantic - we all need some light
U2 - one
these are from my mp3 list. in case, you need more, i'll give a lot more from my CDs.
live - dance with you