Blurry_Dreams
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if you're referring to student loan debt, then you're rightAcademics generally can't recoup lost earnings.
most Americans aren't able to pay off their student loans, it's a problem
if you're referring to student loan debt, then you're rightAcademics generally can't recoup lost earnings.
especially when you consider that the "average american with a credit card" spends "a dollar and a quarter for every dollar that they make"Not just debt. Time in school =/= lost earnings because you aren't working at all, or only full time. Add debt maybe/likely. Then academia doesn't pay very well in most cases, particularly not in respect to the time investment.
Sent off all of my grad apps a few weeks ago. I ended up taking the GRE a second time. I didn't want to because I've already thrown about $500 at ETS over the last few years and I really hate contributing to the racket further. Plus, I figured that perfect grad transcripts and two years of studying in my country of research would place my 158 Verbal in a charitable light. A potential adviser from one of the schools I'm applying to asked me to though because they apparently become valuable bargaining chips in graduate committee discussions. With his asking, it wasn't really possible for me not to do so. It worked out perfectly, as I bumped my score to a 165. So, it makes it all the more likely I'll be able to get into most of the places I've applied. Exciting stuff. My bank account hurts.
Beyond the formalities, I've made contact and had pleasant discussions with all of my potential advisers, one excepted. I still applied to this one because of the name, despite being totally snubbed by the professor (after reaching out to the grad director, this prof replied to me via the grad director, saying I was free to apply if I thought the program was the next logical step in my academic career--I get I'm a nobody, but a little decorum from somebody I'll have to work with for six years would be nice), so I'm hoping I'll make it into the other places so I can turn it down.
Sent off all of my grad apps a few weeks ago. I ended up taking the GRE a second time. I didn't want to because I've already thrown about $500 at ETS over the last few years and I really hate contributing to the racket further. Plus, I figured that perfect grad transcripts and two years of studying in my country of research would place my 158 Verbal in a charitable light. A potential adviser from one of the schools I'm applying to asked me to though because they apparently become valuable bargaining chips in graduate committee discussions. With his asking, it wasn't really possible for me not to do so. It worked out perfectly, as I bumped my score to a 165. So, it makes it all the more likely I'll be able to get into most of the places I've applied. Exciting stuff. My bank account hurts.
Beyond the formalities, I've made contact and had pleasant discussions with all of my potential advisers, one excepted. I still applied to this one because of the name, despite being totally snubbed by the professor (after reaching out to the grad director, this prof replied to me via the grad director, saying I was free to apply if I thought the program was the next logical step in my academic career--I get I'm a nobody, but a little decorum from somebody I'll have to work with for six years would be nice), so I'm hoping I'll make it into the other places so I can turn it down.
I'm more of a systems person adrift in a psych world so there's some mismatch there and I'm probably too agreeable and there's also the simple nature of things.
"This too shall pass" is a source of comfort in the short term, but at times I feel excessively old and rapidly aging, and in that it's not a comfort. I'm in mostly superb health, and barring an accident I expect to live to 80 and beyond, and despite this expectation of a long life I regularly feel like my life is mostly past in a relative sense - which is something backed by data (an example of knowledge not necessarily helping). On my FB I have a quote from Nietzsche which is "Is life not a thousand times too short for us to bore ourselves?". I feel it in my bones increasingly every day, and it's often a source of melancholy even in the midst of enjoyment.
I would have thought you'd describe yourself as a psych person in a systems-focused world.
I think academia prematurely ages you, no matter how healthy you are. I find that keeping up with current trends in the discourse, along with trying to remain relevant via presentation and publication, is unendingly stressful. I basically treat exercise as a technique to counter the side effects of anxiety.
But the finish line's in sight for me. I submitted my dissertation to my defense committee before Thanksgiving. Defense will hopefully occur in late January/early February.
I'm not sure the world has any claim to an orientation.
I assume that's final defense and not a proposal defense? Congrats!
Ha, well that's certainly true. I didn't mean world as in the entire world though; I was invoking your phrase "a systems person adrift in a psych world," by which I thought you were referring to your department, generally speaking.
Final, yes. Thanks. It feels good to get it off my plate and know the end is near (as ominous as that sounds).
I'll just say that it appears clear to me that a lot of psych professors (not that they are a unique case) would benefit from some philosophy classes. Especially ethics and epistemology; maybe some philosophy of science.
I'm so ready to be out of this environment; outside of specific people, there's nothing I'm enjoying in graduate school I can't get equally or better in other settings. I imagine there are some non-person related environmental positives you're going to miss.
I'd think philosophy is mandatory for psych majors, but obviously I don't know.
My wife occasionally interviews graduating seniors from local business schools when her company is looking for new hires. One question she always asks them is what their least favorite course was, and they almost invariably answer "philosophy." Usually they say they don't see how it applies to them, or why the reading was important, etc. And almost invariably, she crosses those applicants off her list.