What to do???!!!

Oct 13, 2003
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ok here's the story, my ex-GF wich i hate so much...well strange feelings...
who cheated on me with one of my best friends wich both i dont speak no more because we became in a big fight, with the cops handeling it all and shit... ugh just feel sick about it still, although it happened almost a year ago

but this is the point she now happened too just been hired in my favourite beer-cafe :| this really sux, i turned around when i saw her and i dont think she saw me, but i hate to give up my fav cafe....

damn everytime i run into here, i need too move and real fast, but still in school my examyear...
 
Stick a large object in her ass. That'll set her straight!

I'd also like to note, I didn't read any part of that post except for "ex-GF".
 
Well that just sucks. Having the feeling that you can't go to a place you like because " that person " will be there really is annoying.
I would say though, for sanity's sake ( and for staying out of prison ) don't go there. Find a new place.
 
I would say though, for sanity's sake ( and for staying out of prison ) don't go there. Find a new place.

I wouldn't do that. She already caused a lot of anger and hurt feelings (I suppose), don't let her ruin even more. Just go there and have a good time that bitch isn't worth the hassle.
 
go to said cafe with a new chick. Ah! That'll show her

hmm mayb not so bad idea :p...when i still had a relation with her, we did had a fight a couple of times because she thought i was cheating on her with another gfriend of mine but i didnt see that friend the whole relation because my gf(now ex) was so pissed at her...i still dont know why...

but i could go with her :p...but still i will probable be kicked out of the cafe... and thats not funny
 
If you're kicked out, then it's your fault. Just show some class, goddammit! Slapping that bitch won't help matters. I highly doubt that she even wants to get in touch with you. There are other people who work there, aren't they?

Edit: If I'd avoid every place where I can't stand someones guts, I might as well stay at home all the time.
 
hmm mayb not so bad idea :p...when i still had a relation with her, we did had a fight a couple of times because she thought i was cheating on her with another gfriend of mine but i didnt see that friend the whole relation because my gf(now ex) was so pissed at her...i still dont know why...

It's probably because she was cheating on you.
 
If you're kicked out, then it's your fault. Just show some class, goddammit! Slapping that bitch won't help matters. I highly doubt that she even wants to get in touch with you. There are other people who work there, aren't they?

Edit: If I'd avoid every place where I can't stand someones guts, I might as well stay at home all the time.

i wont do anything to her but she the only person standing behind the bar, and if she asks the security, i will get kicked even if i dont do shit...

It's probably because she was cheating on you.
i think you are right...
 
Get some of your friends or co-workers (people she does not know) to go in there 2 or 3 times a week and complain to the manager that she is screwing up. Hopefully, she'll get fired.
 
I say go in, pretend you don't know her, and do business as usual. If she has you booted for that, I'd think in in the Netherlands you have a case against her and the place don't you?
 
I agree with the couple of posts that mentioned the bitch not being worth any more hard feelings... don't let her ruin your good time, especially at a favorite place of yours. If she tries anything, just act like you don't know her. Girls (well, particularly, ex-girlfriends) HATE when you ignore them/act like you don't know them. She may have security kick you out, but you can't be banned from the place on the basis of her disapproval of your presence there. If it happens once, whatever, you know she's just being a bitch and probably pissed because of your ignorance of her... and if it happens twice, I agree that you have a valid case on your hands, in which case she'd really be sorry.



If all else fails, go with the sodomy idea I guess.