Alone

[CF87]

I am generally alone in my time and than walk to work and back and sometimes catch rides when not in a decent mood. I really realized over the last few years that people are not going to push you forward and do not care and if you have to take steps alone regardless how scary you just have to do it.

 

[Vitor]

I have no friends, so yeah.. I do everything alone.

 

[ohiogrinder]

I like to be alone sometimes, but usually means I have to sit at home due to a lack of a driver's license (I've already stated 'why' numerous times, no need to go into it again)

I like to go out with friends a lot, suffice to say.

 

[DarkBliss]

After graduating from the university my friends and I kind of drifted apart. I'm not really good at initiating or maintaining social contact, keeping in touch- I feel strangely burdened by this. I still get the occasional phone call from former childhood/adolescence friends, but it rarely goes beyond the dead-end "So, what's new? Not much. How are you?" or the vague promise to drop by for a visit.

 

[Never78]

I'm not really good at initiating or maintaining social contact, keeping in touch- I feel strangely burdened by this.

This is probably because these people are not very interesting. Sounds harsh, but it's true. I had the same feelings when I used to have contact with people. Most people are not more than the image they portray and therefore are a burden to talk to.

 

[~Derek~]

I do a mixture of both, it's not fun riding around or hanginf out anywhere by myself, so tomorrow I will be with a few friends. But when I'm at college I usually eat by myself at all 3 meals and when I go eat out too. When I'm at home I almost always eat out with my parents like tonight for example I ate McDonald's with my Mom.

 

[Blue_Jay]

I have no friends, so yeah.. I do everything alone.

Ouch. Start making some friends online then start making your round to people in real life trust me friends rule once you get used to people.

Two words:

Chrystal Meth

Two Words:

Screw off

 

[Rabid Headbanger]

Ouch. Start making some friends online then start making your round to people in real life trust me friends rule once you get used to people.

To be surrounded by thousands to surivive is pathetic, but a man that can bear lonliness can bear anything.

 

[Blue_Jay]

So says the largest loser in the world, look what becoming lonely has turned you into.

 

[Rabid Headbanger]

So says the largest loser in the world, look what becoming lonely has turned you into.

Your fucking retarded. But your signature tipped me of the moment I saw it.

 

[Alter]

It matters. I have a good social life and I am not a anti-social person at all. I dont hang out with people into metal so I learn about differnt people(though as you all know i am not really a metal fa) but when i reach big groups of people i get scared. I get
nervous and shut dow socially. I dont care if it 30 of my best friends...big group scare me.

 

[Matt]

So says the largest loser in the world, look what becoming lonely has turned you into.

ZING

To be surrounded by thousands to surivive is pathetic, but a man that can bear lonliness can bear anything.

Just because you don't have friends doesn't make you lonely. Besides thee are very easy ways to combat loneliness

 

[Manic Ferocity]

Well I don't like most people so, naturally, I prefer being alone most of the time.

 

[Rabid Headbanger]

Just because you don't have friends doesn't make you lonely. Besides thee are very easy ways to combat loneliness

Lemme reword. I meant if you can handle being alone well then you can take on just about anything.

 

[Matt]

Well I don't like most people so, naturally, I prefer being alone most of the time.

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[Discovery]

For the most part I prefer being by myself, and I stay occupied with activities that are ideal for doing alone such as reading, music listening, etc. But on some occasions the loneliness can become unbearable. And the fucked up thing is, when i'm actually around people, such as when i'm at work, i feel irritable and out of place. I find myself yearning to be alone again.

 

[hibernal_dream]

If you need to always be around people or get lonely, you have problems. That said, there can be many benefits to social relationships not borne of the desire for a cure for one's loneliness.

 

[aqnimal]

I go to bars alone and I drink alone frequently.

Same here.

 

[MasterOLightning]

Here's an excellent article on drinking alone. Highly recommended.

http://www.moderndrunkardmagazine.com/issues/03_03/03-03_zen_drinking_alone.htm

 

[Matt]

For the most part I prefer being by myself, and I stay occupied with activities that are ideal for doing alone such as reading, music listening, etc. But on some occasions the loneliness can become unbearable. And the fucked up thing is, when i'm actually around people, such as when i'm at work, i feel irritable and out of place. I find myself yearning to be alone again.

You need to force yourself out of your shell.