Yeah, I don't know where they've got their "emotionally scarred women" idea from. As a girl who loves it herself, I don't see the idea that some women
just like metal so uncomprehendable. I own every Opeth CD except for Morningrise and GR, and listen to tons of other metal to boot. I take interest in its history, I educate myself, and am always looking to expand my horizons in the genre.
The idea that females aren't interested in the musical, innovative side of metal (as opposed to the image) is bullshit. I study at a conservatory and my interests "specialize" in progressive chamber/symphonic music, and I am a classical musician.
My theory could probably kick your theory's ass, hahahaha. But seriously. I personally know a reasonable number of women who not only appreciate metal, but also know their shit, and just as many bad apple, image obsessed guys who
don´t.
All that being said...
Here´s another girl who likes Opeth