Nah, that'd be quite a coincidence indeed

. Unfortunately all bridges between her and I are totally burned now. I say unfortunately because I'd quite like to gloat at her from time to time hehe. Apparently she lives with her new boyfriend at her mums house, even though he recently came out of the closet to his parents and she seems to think it's healthy to have sex with people in the same bed her new boyfreind is sleeping in

... so I'm not missing out on much there.
And yeah, I always thought it was probably better to have proper holidays around christmas. So your new academic basically begins in the new year? Ours rather randomly begins in september. The stress of getting used to the new work usually peaks around christmas.