Listen, fair enough if you don't like the hardcore bands you've heard - but when you said 'hardcore is and always will be gay', that was out of order. You've written off an entire musical genre because you haven't liked the bands you've heard so far!
Personally, I think I am pretty open minded. I have to be - this website sends me around ten albums a month to review, and I usually get another fifteen to twenty from Copro records. This month alone I got two goth metal bands, two progressive metal bands, one hip-hop band with punk influences, one old-school punk band, one reggae/ska band, two death or grind bands, two black metal bands, one split CD with a hardcore band and a nu-metal band, and God alone knows what else. And I have to listen to all of these and make a fair, unbiased judgement on them. I've had jazz/progressive/goth mix CDs, for God's sake. And I liked them!
I consider myself to be open to styles of music I either haven't heard or previously haven't liked much. I get annoyed when people write off entire genres on the basis of one or two bands.
And by the way - my original comment was meant to be fairly light-hearted in tone. Did I strike a nerve or something?
Peace.