all this talk of arrogance... reminds me of a story from my first internship, years ago.... a session with some guys from UFO was in the studio and "big shot" (for real) engineer Steve Fonatano was at the helm... the session was on 2", with a small PT 5.x system on a side-car for fly-in edits. i didn't know PT very well at the time, though i did have the exact same system at home (PT 5.x with an AM III card in a Mac Quadra 650, woo hoo). i hadn't had the system long, and was much more adept with Opcode Studio Vision.
Anyway, for whatever reason the PT Editor booked for the session didn't show.... so Steve asked me if i could fill the seat... i didn't hesitate, "sure, i have the same system at home". so i hopped in the chair and he watched me "go fish" in the menus twice in the first minute i was in the chair before he promptly and coldly said, "get up, you're done".
my first thought was, "what an arrogant prick". but it motivated me to learn PT well... to learn every shortcut, and be able operate as quickly, efficiently, and accurately as possible... and to this day i've not had the occasion to thank him. i will correct that one of these days... he did me a great service by not being "nice" to me. and you know, this is the way i found it to be as an intern, and then as an assistant in the studios i worked at/in in the SF/Berkeley area in the early to mid 90's. the engineers were hard on us (and pretty cold and demeaning often)... but that would motivate us to do better, and as we got better, sharper, more professional, they would become commensurately more personable and friendlier, and eventually camaraderie developed. it was a time-honored system, and a good one... it weeded out the weak, and hardened, honed, and sharpened the strong.
so personally, i take it as badge of honor when newer guys think i'm arrogant... because i know that it won't be long before they are either my peers, or have fucked off back to the 9-5.
so if you were referring to me at all, by all means, don't bother to dance around it... if you take me to be arrogant, well... you're supposed to. all that's really important is if you have to proper follow-up to reaction to that emotion (hint: it's NOT to spend more than just a few brief moments bitching about it).