Funny that you didn't hear any singing on the "Lost to Apthy" video, there
is singing on that video, so check for it again, the other one is bad hehe.
Ahhhh 'tis the endless questions that will never havee a direct answer. I came up with the following strategy in order to buy your 1st DT cd.
1) Buy "Exposures in Restrospect and Denial," since 'tis a live album and it has a wide variety of DT songs.
2) If you like
OLD DT, I recommend "The Gallery," since 'tis the best.
3) If you like
new DT, buy Damage Done and Character.
4) Listen to the cds in order.
5) Listen to Haven before Projector.
6) If you don't listen to the cds in order, listen to Projector after you've listened to all the other cds.
Hope this helps out a bit, personally I'd recommend you get "The Gallery" and "Haven" since those are my fave DT albums.