Not all debates involve intellectual cock comparison via large syllabic words, that the common Joe doesnt understand. But I hear ya.
I fucking love debates. I feel very strongly about a lot of things and love for people to challenge my thoughts and beliefs, cause I do the same. Not just to try and change them, but to hear their side and then challenge it.
One of the biggest turn offs to me in a woman, or a person in general really, is the inability to have their own opinion on something. They like shit cause so and so likes it, but never really formed their own opinion on the matter. I have a friend who likes something just cause I like it, and they want to have something in common with me. Cool...But not really. I wont think any less of that person for having a differing opinion, but I will for not having their own. I like differing opinions, hearing other sides to things, and talking about it.