I agree and do the same thing, but I don't think liking a girl has or needs an explanation. You're just going to psych yourself out.As I explained, I analyze everything I do. I think it's important to understand myself.
I don't want a challenge, I want her to like me.![]()
Upon reflection I've decided that the embarrassment is healthy, if unnecessary. It means I don't feel entitled to that stuff, which is good.
divinetorture seems pissed at me ever since I suggested that dealing heroin and getting in drunken fights at biker bars might not be the healthiest lifestyle, but dude I wasn't saying I'm better than these people, just better off.
Novelty is another important characteristic when it comes to attraction. If nothing else is satisfactory, perhaps this will prove to be an adequate explanation.Except that my attraction to her isn't physical in nature (I mean, I am physically attracted to her, but that's not all it is); I genuinely like her, and I can't think of why I should. I wonder if it's that we have so little in common that makes me like her; I had a thought about this earlier and came up with a possible explanation, but I've forgotten it...
DAMN YOU WESTERNIZATION!!! DAMN YOU!!!As far as reproductive value goes...I've heard some cultures, including Asian ones, view long hair on men as a sign of virility. It would be nice if she shared this view...
I don't want a challenge, I want her to like me.![]()
Human psychology is more-or-less contagious. Just react to her as if she already likes you, and maybe she'll fall for it.It's really, really hard for me to explain how to do that. Everyone I know hates how well I can get anyone to like me. It's something I do naturally. It's not 'cause I'm gorgeous, I just always know what to say and when to say it.