The Whining and Bitching Thread
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damnromulans
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I'm "meelynn" on Skype, friend me.
OK gents, help me out here?
I have a friend at home who has one-sided feelings for me and recently he has been really unstable and getting addicted to stuff and generally hating life and making bad choices. His fiancee left him and they have a 3 year old. He mailed me and asked me to call because we hadn't talked in a while so I did. He was high as a kite and got really paranoid and pissy about absolutely nothing and I ended up hanging up on him. A few tense mails later he breaks out the "GODDAMMIT KRAMPUS I'VE BEEN IN LOVE WITH YOU SINCE THE DAY WE MET BLAH BLAH ONE DAY WE WILL BE TOGETHER" (still high, I imagine, but I know these are his actual feelings).
At this point it's more work than fun to be his friend, and I really don't feel like dealing with someone trying to make me feel guilty about nothing. I don't actually feel guilty at all, just annoyed. I don't really want to deal with him - if he needs a therapist he can pay for one. While I sometimes like hanging out with him, I don't really CARE about his issues enough to want to help pull him out of his rut.
Try putting yourself in this guy's shoes. What could a girl do that would be blunt and clear enough to get you to fuck off and stop liking her? I don't really care about our "friendship" as he is kind of a burden, but it is walking on eggshells because his brother is my best friend and they live together.
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damnromulans
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he works at a PHARMACIZZLE (why is the real word blocked?!) in a grocery store.
i suppose the whole blowup is my fault for saying "wow that's pretty sad" when he mentioned how he smokes weed every day...BARF
i suppose the whole blowup is my fault for saying "wow that's pretty sad" when he mentioned how he smokes weed every day...BARF
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Just ignore him or something. Tell him you're busy whenever he tries to call. Block his number/e-mail. Put a lump of coal in his stocking for Christmas.
damnromulans
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yeah, probably going that route. call me a fair weather friend all you want, cos that's what I am.
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damnromulans
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If he just smoked weed every day to chill out or whatever that's fine, but I have a huge problem with alcoholics and pill-poppers all the time, especially when they are spending their limited funds on that shit instead of ensuring their CHILDREN are ok.
And I HATE children.
And I HATE children.
Saparmurat_Niyazov
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Oh, if it's like that, then I would have to agree. Also, I'm sure you don't totally hate kids, being as you're a teacher and all. Shit, I'm a father, and most kids get on my last nerve, but when you think about it, kids and adults have much more in common than not.
damnromulans
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If you don't kill them or starve them to death they become adults!
I'm not a real teacher though, and my students are 16-18. I love teenagers, but little ones (babies up to age 8 or so) are just ew.
I'm not a real teacher though, and my students are 16-18. I love teenagers, but little ones (babies up to age 8 or so) are just ew.
Saparmurat_Niyazov
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I love babies, but ages 5 - 15 are completely intolerable to me. Always in your face with those stupid questions.
damnromulans
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A future of hatred awaits you!
I like my friend's nephews, ages 9 and 10 - they are really quirky but well behaved, and they couldn't care less about "what do you like food" or other stupid inane crap children ask. I hear all kinds of horror stories from my friends who teach at elem. schools. My personal favorite are the kids who think said teacher commutes from his/her home country to Japan every day to go to work.
I like my friend's nephews, ages 9 and 10 - they are really quirky but well behaved, and they couldn't care less about "what do you like food" or other stupid inane crap children ask. I hear all kinds of horror stories from my friends who teach at elem. schools. My personal favorite are the kids who think said teacher commutes from his/her home country to Japan every day to go to work.
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Dude, me too. What the fuck is up. Where do I go what do I do now? I'm practically fucked.
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My cousin is 13 and she's sexy as hell and also quite intelligent. And drinks beer. Win.
I'm missing money for alco, but true is that I have a lot of free time now, today I'm waiting for results of entering exams to get to uni, I really hope I got there because the campus is sexy as hell, a lot of bitches and three pubs in the areal, and they make their own beer too. It just fucking rocks.
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damnromulans
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I remember I once asked my english teacher (from Chicago iirc) what is this major/double-major bullshit and I tried to understand the system of US unis but I never cared enough to remember. In US you go to the uni and then decide what your fields are? That's like pokemon on nintendo tbh. This uni I go to is Czech agriculture university and there are various departements and you have to choose one before you even sign there so it's more like a school in a school rather than one big school where you choose what to do later.
Thanks ma'am, still don't know the results.
cookiecutter
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Usually you choose a major after your first year. Each major has certain class requirements but you generally have some flexibility.
