The Whining and Bitching Thread

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I went on my ~2.5 mile lunch walk today and fucking twisted my ankle about 7 minutes in. Like a trooper I completed the mission but now it aches, probably because I walked so far on it immediately after hurting it.

Ankles are stupid
 
My pulled/torn ab muscle is feeling better now, but I woke up from a nap earlier and my shoulder blade is killing me from sleeping on it funny. Yay.
 
no, there's no point in stressing him out over a stupid mistake. it's not like I kissed back, and I talked it over with my friend a little while ago and he apologized and it's fine now.
 
no, there's no point in stressing him out over a stupid mistake. it's not like I kissed back, and I talked it over with my friend a little while ago and he apologized and it's fine now.

Well, I'll tell you right now, if I were your boyfriend and I somehow found out about this later on down the round via third party, you can expect there would be hell to pay.

I personally wouldn't want my girlfriend out partying with a bunch of "guy friends" in the first place. I've never met a chick who has "guy friends" that their "friends" didn't want to fuck the shit out of her unless she was really ugly and fat or something. It's pretty amazing to me how naive women are when it comes to the relationships between men and women. Unless the guy is either gay or has an extreme amount of self-control, he's probably going to want to nail his female friend (assuming she's hot). That's just the way it is.

So if I were your boyfriend, I'd be questioning your actions regardless of who is technically at fault. Having said that, it may seem like I'm coming down on you to try and make you feel guilty, which I'm not. But at the same time, you really shouldn't be putting yourself into situations like this, in my opinion.

Either way, the culprit is a major sleaze bag.
 
I personally wouldn't want my girlfriend out partying with a bunch of "guy friends" in the first place. I've never met a chick who has "guy friends" that their "friends" didn't want to fuck the shit out of her unless she was really ugly and fat or something. It's pretty amazing to me how naive women are when it comes to the relationships between men and women. Unless the guy is either gay or has an extreme amount of self-control, he's probably going to want to nail his female friend (assuming she's hot). That's just the way it is.

So if I were your boyfriend, I'd be questioning your actions regardless of who is technically at fault. Having said that, it may seem like I'm coming down on you to try and make you feel guilty, which I'm not. But at the same time, you really shouldn't be putting yourself into situations like this, in my opinion.

Either way, the culprit is a major sleaze bag.

It takes an extreme amount of self control to not make physical advances toward a girl who has a boyfriend? Sounds like the "she was asking for it" argument pertaining to rapists. Yours is an old fashioned way of thinking and I can see where you're coming from. I agree that we're all a bunch of animals and that integrated straight male-female combat units in the military are a terrible idea, but as far as basic friendships are concerned social rules > instincts.

I'll take the risk. It was pretty much nothing and I've already all but forgotten it ever happened, even if it did ruin my weekend a little bit.

As far as relationships and rules etc we operate under the "you're gonna do what you're gonna do" mindset. I've dated possessive people before and I always cheated on them simply because they were so possessive. I could cheat easily now, but I have no desire or interest to do so.