Nearly got owned by a tornado last night. Fuck!
About to likely be owned by death-thunderstorms of the highest calibre.
"Death Thunderstorms" sounds like it would make a damn cool song name.
no, there's no point in stressing him out over a stupid mistake. it's not like I kissed back, and I talked it over with my friend a little while ago and he apologized and it's fine now.
I personally wouldn't want my girlfriend out partying with a bunch of "guy friends" in the first place. I've never met a chick who has "guy friends" that their "friends" didn't want to fuck the shit out of her unless she was really ugly and fat or something. It's pretty amazing to me how naive women are when it comes to the relationships between men and women. Unless the guy is either gay or has an extreme amount of self-control, he's probably going to want to nail his female friend (assuming she's hot). That's just the way it is.
So if I were your boyfriend, I'd be questioning your actions regardless of who is technically at fault. Having said that, it may seem like I'm coming down on you to try and make you feel guilty, which I'm not. But at the same time, you really shouldn't be putting yourself into situations like this, in my opinion.
Either way, the culprit is a major sleaze bag.
It takes an extreme amount of self control to not make physical advances toward a girl who has a boyfriend? Sounds like the "she was asking for it" argument pertaining to rapists. Yours is an old fashioned way of thinking and I can see where you're coming from. I agree that we're all a bunch of animals and that integrated straight male-female combat units in the military are a terrible idea, but as far as basic friendships are concerned social rules > instincts.
I'll take the risk. It was pretty much nothing and I've already all but forgotten it ever happened, even if it did ruin my weekend a little bit.
As far as relationships and rules etc we operate under the "you're gonna do what you're gonna do" mindset. I've dated possessive people before and I always cheated on them simply because they were so possessive. I could cheat easily now, but I have no desire or interest to do so.
I agree with KD 100% on this. Single (and usually "taken") guys are not friends with girls who are hot unless they want to fuck them.
or if they have a friend who happens to be more attractive than them
This. Guys think about sex so much that by the time they've talked to any female other than their mother for more than two minutes they've thought about having sex with her an average of 3.6 times, even if she's completely hideous and they'd never actually do it. That said, my opinion is that Krampus shouldn't fucking worry about it.I have a hard time believing that most friendships between a guy and a girl are ever "pure" in the mind of the guy, even if he's not exactly consciously aware of it.
Guys think about sex so much that by the time they've talked to any female other than their mother for more than two minutes they've thought about having sex with her an average of 3.6 times
For once I agree with King Dick about something. Nothing excuses that dude's behavior, but girls really have got to be careful about the kinds of situations they put themselves in with guys. I have a hard time believing that most friendships between a guy and a girl are ever "pure" in the mind of the guy, even if he's not exactly consciously aware of it. I've had to bring girls back down to Earth about this sort of thing before. Don't ever idealize males or your relationships with them.
On a related note, isn't it awkward now to be fully aware that your friend is horny over you? I have had, ahem, relations with friends before, and even if you go on having a relatively normal friendship you always have this awkward thought like "Hey, remember that one time?"
I'm not that great looking