The Whining and Bitching Thread

[CiG]

lol thanks!

 

[Vegard Pompey]

Yeah that's it but where did you find it? It used to be near the search bar but for me it's no longer there.

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For me it shows up when I click inside the search field.

 

[no country for old wainds]

that’s been the only way of getting the advanced search page for years afaik. the search function has only been fucked for a few months though

 

[Einherjar86]

When I click in the search field, I get a drop-down menu of recently searched terms--no advanced search option.

I wonder if it has something to do with cookies? Are my searches interfering with the site's functionality? I'm very illiterate when it comes to this, but I've also been having issues with it.

 

[CiG]

When I click in the search field, I get a drop-down menu of recently searched terms--no advanced search option.

Same.

 

[Slammed]

Are you both on the same sort of screens/devices?
Most websites these days display different things dependant on screen size

 

[Einherjar86]

I’m on a PC.

 

[CiG]

Same.

 

[Slammed]

Usually when I design pages I design for about 6 different resolutions and some smaller phone screens slip through the cracks but it's generally small screens x2, bigger phones, tablets, laptops and then everything bigger. On my laptop I can click in the search and get the advanced search options (didn't know that until today so it shows how often I search), but not sure if your screens are higher res than mine therefore giving different results. I could look at the code but honestly I can't be fucked.

 

[Einherjar86]

Meh, I don’t care that much, just saw the conversation and figured I’d chime in.

 

[Bloopy]

For me it shows up when I click inside the search field.

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I see that in Firefox which I usually use, but if I switch to Google Chrome then I just see recent searches as @Einherjar86 described. Maybe a recent update to Chrome has a disagreement with how the advanced search popup works.

 

[CiG]

RIP Dusty Hill.

 

[Bloopy]

Just got an email that Patti Smith's tour is cancelled. That was the last ticket of hope I was hanging onto through this whole fucking shit.

At least if I manage to go meet my niece in Melbourne for the first time around her 2nd birthday I won't be worried about needing to get back the following week.

 

[Blurry_Dreams]

somehow i just keep waiting for @Sophii to post in this specific thread

but since that's not happening, i guess that means Sophii's life is finally good now, i guess

 

[Blurry_Dreams]

@Sophii

the bat-shit-crazy woman that i was having sex with every-day for a whole fucking month stopped having sex with me when some dude decided that i'm not allowed inside the tent that she's living in

theoretically she could have just come outside of the tent to fuck me, but she's bat-shit-crazy
she's pooping just barely outside of the tent and she's got this gigantic-hospital-cup where she's actually inside the tent when she pisses
she's just no longer leaving the tent that i was entering to have sex with her and then some dude says that I'm not allowed to enter this tent anymore even though she won't have sex with this guy

 

[Sophii]

I still very much struggle with the fact that I have the ability to do anything that isn't work and or home related things. And I'm doing my best to drive that thought out of my head...

Its very hard for me and its so very confusing to feel freedom.

I'm not used to being able to see friends without a partner involved. I'm not used to going out and doing things on my own. I'm not familiar with how to be a person for myself.

I've been controlled my whole life and having this sense of autonomy is frightening.

 

[Blurry_Dreams]

I still very much struggle with the fact that I have the ability to do anything that isn't work and or home related things. And I'm doing my best to drive that thought out of my head...

Its very hard for me and its so very confusing to feel freedom.

I'm not used to being able to see friends without a partner involved. I'm not used to going out and doing things on my own. I'm not familiar with how to be a person for myself.

I've been controlled my whole life and having this sense of autonomy is frightening.

i understand this post more than anyone else here

i don't date the women i want to date
i date the women who want to date me
and a lot of these women see "door-mat-slave-boy" written on my forehead

the longest relationship that I've ever been in was the girl who gave me a black-eye as punishment for doing something that pissed her off while i was in front her friends
she wasn't trying to hurt my face, she was trying to bruise my face
she held my chin with one hand and used her other hand to bruise my face
and then walking around in front of her friends with the black-eye was my punishment for embarrassing her in-front of those specific friends
those specific people seeing my black-eye was supposed to let them know that she had control over me
and she did have control over me
when she held my chin with one hand to bruise my face with her other hand
i just sat there and let her do it
and this girl was the longest relationship that i've ever had

 

[no country for old wainds]

all the heat records are being smashed today, the UK has broken the 40 barrier for the first time ever and it’s 38/98 where i am. if that doesn’t sound so bad keep in mind all our buildings are designed to keep heat in and most including mine don’t have a/c. i’m working in the hottest room in the house and i have a cold on top, if i never post again it’s because i’ve burned alive.

 

[no country for old wainds]

i understand this post more than anyone else here

i don't date the women i want to date
i date the women who want to date me
and a lot of these women see "door-mat-slave-boy" written on my forehead

the longest relationship that I've ever been in was the girl who gave me a black-eye as punishment for doing something that pissed her off while i was in front her friends
she wasn't trying to hurt my face, she was trying to bruise my face
she held my chin with one hand and used her other hand to bruise my face
and then walking around in front of her friends with the black-eye was my punishment for embarrassing her in-front of those specific friends
those specific people seeing my black-eye was supposed to let them know that she had control over me
and she did have control over me
when she held my chin with one hand to bruise my face with her other hand
i just sat there and let her do it
and this girl was the longest relationship that i've ever had

the difference is that you need to be controlled for all of our sakes. she really let us all down when she let you off your leash and stopped fulfilling her sacred duty.

 

[Vegard Pompey]

I do not envy the weather you're having over there Take care of yourself man, these temperatures are no joke.