The Whining and Bitching Thread

I don't see the point in bouncers. I've only ever seen fights in places that had bouncers and I've been in massive clubs and packed bars and other such places where none were clearly visible and no bother was to be had. It think the bouncers just create the bother to justify their existence and pass the time.
 
Why and how do people not understand why I can't stop overanalyzing everything when my brain has been wired to do that since I can remember? Why do people think it's easily fixable? Why do people think that there's something wrong with me for stewing over shit?

Fuck people.
 
Why are you overanalyzing why people are wondering why you are overanalyzing?
 
I see the acquisition of a significant other as a by-product and not a sufficient condition of one's self-worth. I don't consider myself lucky to have who I have, rather that I must have done some good things for myself to deserve her.
 
I see the acquisition of a significant other as a by-product and not a sufficient condition of one's self-worth. I don't consider myself lucky to have who I have, rather that I must have done some good things for myself to deserve her.

Pretty much how I feel about mine. It's like I'm being rewarded for putting up with so much bullshit from past relationships, especially the last one.

Ugh. Have I mentioned before how much I can't stand my ex? Just seeing him when he picks up my son/drops him off is enough to make me wretch.
 
What a ridiculous question

Spent my morning and early afternoon running poorly organized bridal shower errands with a bunch of people I don't know. I'm constipated and too sick/congested to exercise and my landlord is (A) raising rent (B) coming here in 2 days which means OHSHITCLEANEVERYTHING and (C) might move here in the fall, which means I'm outta here cause neither of us want to live with him.
 
I am so tired of being blamed for racism, just because I'm white! A white man can't call a black person a "my pals" but they call each other that. How does that make any sense? It's hypocritical. I don't like it when black people hate on white rappers - I'm not a rapper myself, I'm a metal dude, but still it's freaking racist! So what - just ignore the reality of Vanilla Ice AND The Beastie Boys and treat white people badly just because they wanna bust a rhyme? AND BY THE DOG-BANGIN' WAY! Eminem is NOT the first white rapper, nor is he the best of them. The Beastie Boys got into hip hop and rap in what - maybe 1979-1980? Somewhere around that time. It REALLY pisses me off when people act like Eminem is so special just because he's a white man that raps. That's just stupid. Everybody seems to have forgotten about Vanilla Ice, the guy who made that song, "Ice Ice Babey."

Being white does not mean that I couldn't or shouldn't get into hip hop or rap if I wanted to - I don't, but that's just because I love metal! It's not because I'm white. Being white also does not mean I'm racist!

This is the sort of thing that happens regularly: A black person sees some white guys listening to "black" music - hip hop and rap, (which history will show is not truly any more "black" then it is "white" or "yellow" or whatever), gets pissed off, gets on their cases and calls them "wiggers." And then he's got the audacity to go around calling white people, "whiteboy," "whitey," "cracker," "honkey," or whatever...(and we can't call them "my pals"? Oh wait! I forgot; my ancestors two hundred years ago were racist slave-owners, and somehow I'm guilty for it...yeah, right).

I am not racist. I don't think that all black people are racist either; I have plenty of really awesome black friends. I don't give a fuck. I have absolutely no white guilt and if that bothers any racist bigots out there, regardless of their skin color, then this is what I say to them: :hahamiddlefinger: