Well, here is my explanation of it after yesterday. I think Opeth is not for eveyone. Opeth is a musicians band, because they focus more on using their talent to bring to life inspirational, and emotional music, rather than what might be considered catchy to the everyday human ear. They write music, regardless of everything else but their own opinion, and that is just the way it is. How many people do you think have told them that they could be superfamous if they quit the growling vocals??? A lot, and they did not do this because they probably felt they were necessary to convey certain emotions. Well, that's my small take, but personally, I would never try to talk someone into liking Opeth, because I never really care what others are listening to. Unless it's like party music, you never really share the music you love with others, or atleast not me, except for sometimes listening to some of this stuff with friends, and going to concerts.