yeah, I like what i'm seeing here about the sex ed stuff. I've never once heard anything at school about gay folk, the only thing i've heard is teaching general tolerance for all people regardless of religion, race, gender, or sexual preference. Being gay has never been encouraged in any way, but it just hasn't been scorned by faculty of schools i attended. And I hate to revert to south park, but they had one of the best points ever in the episode where Mr. Garrison was trying to get fired for being gay but everyone applauded his perversities and called him a brave man. At the end of the show he went on an awesome jag which i think holds up beautifully. He was talking about tolerance and how it's come to mean acceptance when that's NOT the point of tolerance. It's called tolerance because all you have to do is not make an issue. You have to tolerate it, which means that you have to just put up with it, not accept it or like it or support it, but just deal with it as a reality. I always thought that was an awesome point.
As far as abstinence, that is the worst idea for a lesson plan ever when it comes to sex education. I know some people don't want their kids engaging in these activities, and that part falls on the parents. As far as the education, kids should have an understanding of what is safe and what's not, what's going to protect them when they inevitably DO have sex (sorry parents, it's gonna happen). You don't want your son getting some chick pregnant and you don't want your daughters getting pregnant just because they wanted to experiment and didn't know the deal. As cheesy as it sounds, I'm glad I grew up listening to loveline on the radio because not only did I learn a lot about what is reality and what are myths when it comes to sex (that school NEVER bothered to teach me... such as pulling out is not a valid form of birth control... that sounds like a "well duh" statement but it's surprising how many people don't know this) but also helped me to learn what to do when you are with someone. Some guys learn their sexual techniques from porn, which is absolutely hysterical to me.
Basically, education is going to keep people safer than the lack thereof.