Hiljainen
why can't we not be sober
no, but it's a difficult moment and i have a bad feeling, and the little experience i have taught me that bad feelings are rarely wrong.
UndoControl said:If you would elaborate, maybe i could help you out. If you don't want to, i understand. Meanwhile, i'll just say that maybe it's something you can work out. In the past, i had a lot of bad feelings too. With time i've learned that getting all depressive about them doesn't help (quite on the contrary, actually) and that sometimes difficult situations have solutions. Especially lately i have confirmed that. Look: if your problem has a solution, don't worry, you'll find the solution; if it doesn't, worrying won't help in the least. Cheer up, mate.
@Hiljainen : First of all, hello! haven't seen you in a while on the board.
Secondly, this stress you and your boyfriend suffer I figure is about your relation? If it is, the only thing I can say is that the two things you have to trust in such a situation is what you think (as long as you're not lying to yourself) and how you feel. Don't let yourself be strangled by exterior opinions.
UndoControl said:Try to do your best at uni (both of you); your future depends on that. In my opinion, it doesn't matter if you have to sacrifice a few hours/days/weeks of seeing each other if you use those hours/days/weeks to do better at uni; you'll have more than enough time to make up for it afterwards.