I was going to suggest that the other day, since you didn't make a list like we talked.
NAVY dude!
...if you can meet the points, Air Force. Where only the officers get close to the fighting.
You'll get way more out of it than staying at home collecting autographs! x10
As you people could probably tell, I'm not exactly happy with my current situation in life. I'm single, work at Wal-Mart, can't go to school because I'm stupid and poor, out of shape, impatient with myself, etc.... Well. I had this idea before, but I just thought of it again... Anyway, I'm thinking about getting into one of the Armed Forces. The training would put my body through hell and get me in shape, it will teach me discipline, it will give me goals to reach and motivation to get there, and it will actually make me do something worthwhile.
So, I was just wondering what you people thought about the idea. If you have any family members in any kind of AMERICAN service, what are some stories you hear, how well off are they, etc?
Heartless - If you told me to kill myself, I'd laugh at you. I wouldn't. I almost did a couple of years ago. I woke up after that. My best friend killed himself last year, and it fucked me up and woke me up even more. I'm not going to do that.
I made up my mind on this entire thing. I'm going to do a ton of research and enlist in whichever one I think would work the best for me.
Good luck man, just remember to hang on, it's going to be hard but stick it out. Here are some quotes that I literally live my life by and I used to read these everday (along with a list of self-made goals)... I know it seems stupid to write goals down and read them everyday but trust me man, it really helps, especially when you lose the mindset you're in now, which will happen, when you're ready to give up and have forgotten why you're in this and what is keeping you going, then you will have that list to refresh your willpower. It sounds dumb as fuck but if you are to listen to me it will probably help you a lot.
"Success is a matter of a few simple disciplines, practiced every day. Failure is a few errors in
judgment, repeated every day."
"The strangest secret in the world is that you become what you think about.”
“Make no small plans; they have no magic to stir your blood to action. Make big plans, aim high in work and hope.”
“If you have a strong enough why you can bear almost any how.”
"Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strength. When you overcome hardships, that is strength."
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Fill this out as well
1. Your ultimate long-term goal
2. 12 month goal
3. Three month goals
4. Weekly goals
5. Daily goals (habits to develop, things to do every day repeatedly)
6. The goal of beating your personal best
I noticed that the pay is ALOT higher as an officer... like... ALOT. It would be nice to have a degree, but I really can't. I did my little "I suck at book learning" rant before, and I don't exactly feel like being in debt by getting loans.
The Navy offers about $1,000 - $1,300 living allowance for places in New Jersey, some higher in other states... that's in ADDITION to the starting monthly pay of approx $1,300. That's more than enough.
Will, you won't be living off base unless you're either married, have a kid, or hit E-5 in the Navy, E-4 in the Air Force. That's where your living allowance comes from. You'll be staying in the barracks until then and eating at the chow hall. That's about four years in the AF and at least 5 years in the Navy. In the Navy you can expect to be hot bunking when you're at sea...that means that when you work, your bunkmate sleeps in your bed and vice versa, in a teeny tiny cabin full of 4 other guys for 6 months. While you're in port, you'll have at least one to two roommates in a small room. In the AF you have your own room and share a kitchenette and bathroom with a suitemate.
Also, the pay scales are all the same. An E-1 in the Navy makes the same as an E-1 in the AF, Army, or Marine Corps. The only thing that changes in pay is if you have some sort of special duty position like I did, or you live off base, as cost of living differs in different areas in the world. But then again, you won't be living off base for several years unless you get married or become E-5...only then is it automatic. In fact, you're still in the dorms as an E-4 in the AF, but you get put on a waiting list to move off base.
Yes, officer is the way to go if you plan on making a big career out of it. I joined due to the example set by my family who were all officers. I enlisted, however, as I felt it more suitable to my lifestyle.
Unless you've got your heart set on the Navy, I'd really wish you'd reconsider going Air Force...I'm telling you you won't regret it. It's better in almost every single way.
Please keep updating the board with information as you find out...hopefully I can help explain these things further.
"Can I attend college while on active duty?
Definitely. Going to school is encouraged. The Navy will pay 100% tuition for all accredited classes. In addition to gaining knowledge, a degree can help you when it comes time for a promotion."
so basically... If I get "enlisted" in the navy, they'd pay 100% of my tuition. I could try that out since I wouldn't be wasting my money. If I get a 4-year degree while in there, I could attempt to become an officer after that. Well, fuck. That seems like a good idea!
As for the air force, I didn't notice anything about being able to get free standby flights. That was a thing that I liked about the Navy benefits. Did I just miss something, or is that something that the Air Force offers, too?
I sure as shit do enjoy boats, though!
First beer's on me if we cross paths.