@fireangel: hehe. i feel quite the mind reader today.
1 - i don't think my dinner companion was trying to bribe me. first of all, he's gay and in a relationship, so certainly he didn't want any sex with me. secondly, we've been friends for some years now, so he didn't even wanted to impress - he was just being kind.
2 - the value-for-money question, when it comes to restaurants, is a tricky one. some outlets charge ridiculous amounts of money for food and wine that is subpar, some others charge ridiculous amounts of money for food and wine that is actually excellent (which was the case). not to mention that the price level of anything in luxembourg is, in general, very high. of course, the amount on the tab is normally very much higher than the actual price paid for the ingredients, and it also entails a healthy profit for the owners after the chefs and personnel are paid, but still:
3 - normally, the service, locale and atmosphere make the difference. while some upper class places are snotty, some others just make you feel taken care of (and not in the dispatching-with-a-bullet sense of the term either). i like having competent, well-dressed staff around that can give me advice on wines i might not know, refill my glass when it's empty, and describe the details of preparations should i be interested in them. i like places where conversation is kept at a low volume as a sign of respect for other patrons.
4 - and yes, i like feeling cool. i also believe that most people like feeling cool, even though the way the objective is achieved varies greatly across people, across stages of life, and even across moods for the same person. i felt cool when allowed to see bad religion backstage, for example, which has nowt to do with money or class, but still it was a privilege. which brings me to the last question, i.e.: is someone's opinion of me measured by how much they pay for dinner? not exclusively, and it also depends on the context. while i would not think that someone has a low opinion of me because they invite me for a pizza, i conversely believe that if someone puts in the effort of finding a very cool place and shelling out money that they could have used for themselves they must at least like my company enough to forego alternative uses of that money.