The Whining and Bitching Thread

Tell that to this one chick I know. I've asked her out on a date a few times and she says that I'm in the friend zone

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I've been put in the friend zone over 4 times because I would actually like to get to know the girl and build more than just a physical connection before I want to enter a relationship. Because of that, I become a friend which girls consider un-datable for some stupid fucking reason.
 
I don't tend to have that problem. Usually the female friends I start to want to date like me anyway because I only date girls I click with.
 
Being called "a friend" after few dates is a definite refusal of any engagement in any relationship in the future.
 
The friend zone sucks. There's actually one chick that I was in love with in 9th grade (I actually still have some feelings for her) I kept on trying to find the right time to ask her out but everytime I was about to she told me that she had a new boyfriend. After I finally told her my feelings for her she said that I had waited too long and was too good of a friend by then. Apparently she liked me for a while but I wasn't quick enough... damnit, now I'm thinking about her again :(
 
I wasn't targetting you...it's just that whenever I read a couple posts in this thread it always seems to be the same thing.

I almost feel like I'm back in elementary school.

I sent this girl a letter that asked her if she loved me...she checked the NO option!...
 
Clearly, amirite? Why the fuck didn't I see this :rolleyes:

Sorry I simplified it in that way. I am always pissed with all that friend hypocrytic bullshit. As if they are too afraid of telling men the bitter truth. It would be more comfortable for me not to hear from the chick "let just be friends" line. Just say the truth god damn it!
 
Well I feel awkward that I'm gonna have to continue this "bitching about love-related shit" trend, but whatevs. :lol: Incoming story, homies.

So I asked the girl I like tonight, if she wanted to go to the prom in June with me. I mentioned to her, about how normally I'm not a big dance-goer, but it's Grad... so I think it'd be cool to go to. Now, I should feel fucking awesome, since she agreed (albeit with an "uhmmm, sure").

There is a problem though; she seemed a bit taken aback when I brought it up. And afterwards, she seemed significantly less talkative. Afterwards she mentioned about how she wasn't planning on going to the prom, because it was "sorta gay" (like me, she's not a big dance-goer at all).

But she agreed. So I don't really know what to think. I'm hoping I didn't awkward shit up for her... since I've had problems with that before (She caught wind back in September that I liked her, and ended up telling me she just wanted to remain friends... tbh, I've never really been able to recover from that, although I don't show it at school).

I'd feel like a massive fucking douche if it turns out I did make things awkward. :erk:
 
I wasn't targetting you...it's just that whenever I read a couple posts in this thread it always seems to be the same thing.

I almost feel like I'm back in elementary school.

I sent this girl a letter that asked her if she loved me...she checked the NO option!...

reminds me of this friend I knew in high school who liked this girl that we both knew. so one day he goes up and sits next to her and gives her a letter. He asked her in the letter if she wanted to go out with him and check yes or no, and she checked no, he's sitting right next to her and he can't even ask her so he uses a piece of paper LOL
 
thats just it. Girls don't want male friends, then want a man to control (to a certain point) them because it makes them wildly wet when the male half shows his testosterone. why do you think women who are abused usually never leave the relationship? why do you think guys who are cocky and follow their rules (bad boys) get all the sweet pussy? Instead of being pussy yourself, be dick and slap a bitch every now and then(NOT PHYSCIALLY, BUT SOCIALLY/EMOTIONALLY). She'll drop to her knees in uncontrollable horny agony, because she wants to be fucked by a man. Not a woman with a penis. (MOST HOT BABES FOLLOW THIS, AND THE UGLY ONES ARE USUALLY DESPERATE BECAUSE WE LIVE IN A CRUEL SEX/PERFECT BODY CRAZED WORLD)

....ya...