The Whining and Bitching Thread

[katierose]

Well even if they don't right away, they totally think about it.

What I meant was if a girl likes you, you will KNOW. We are incredibly obvious.

 

[The Ozzman]

What I meant was if a girl likes you, you will KNOW. We are incredibly obvious.

Not true. You are more cryptic than anything I've ever experienced IME. Some girl could be giving me tons of signals that could mean she likes me, but if the guy doesn't know it's not his fault.

Obvious to a girl =/= obvious to a guy. In my opinion, you need to just tell the guy (or do something lewd like grab his junk or something)

 

[King Richard]

Dude, what's so hard about YOU initiating it? That's what guys are supposed to do you putz. If you are waiting for some chick to come up to you and ask to suck your cock, you're going to be waiting a while.

Seriously man, this is the best advice anyone can give you: grow some balls, act confident but not cocky, and go for it. The worst that can happen is she says no.

 

[The Ozzman]

I normally don't go looking for women at bars anyway. Usually I grow some balls with a pitcher of beer (or three)

Besides, gender roles are reversing, bra. More women are starting to be assertive and be the one that approaches the other party since men are becoming so shy and fearing of rejection. If a girl wants something and doesn't tell me what she wants, then she shouldn't get pissed when I act all confused. She should just fucking tell me exactly what she wants and there will be fewer problems all around, rather than being cryptic like I can fucking read minds or something. I mean, if some chick is throwing out signals that she likes me, she shouldn't automatically assume I know what those signals mean. If she gravs my junk, then yeah it obviously means she's DTF, but if she's playing with her hair or something, I don't fucking know what that means

 

[King Richard]

THAT'S WHY YOU INITIATE THE NEXT STEP YOU DUMB FUCK

Holy fucking hell, did you read ANYTHING I just fucking said man? Stop acting like a bitch. Like I said, if you initiate the next step you don't have to worry about what signals she is/isn't giving off. As long as she acts like she is having a good time and isn't trying to ignore you or tell you to go choke on a dick, find the fortitude to do something about it.

fuck

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You're putting the pussy on a pedestal brother. Bring that shit back down to earth before your balls explode in your sack. DO IT FOR YOUR BALLS

 

[The Ozzman]

THAT'S WHY YOU INITIATE THE NEXT STEP YOU DUMB FUCK

Holy fucking hell, did you read ANYTHING I just fucking said man? Stop acting like a bitch. Like I said, if you initiate the next step you don't have to worry about what signals she is/isn't giving off. As long as she acts like she is having a good time and isn't trying to ignore you or tell you to go choke on a dick, find the fortitude to do something about it.

fuck

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You're putting the pussy on a pedestal brother. Bring that shit back down to earth before your balls explode in your sack. DO IT FOR YOUR BALLS

 

[King Richard]

Fine then. I hope you enjoy fucking your hand the rest of your life.

frackin edit: I like you dude, in a totally hetero way, but you seriously need to drop this woe is me attitude. This is why you get no tang brother.

 

[The Ozzman]

Why should I have to initiate the next step or try and interpret her signals? She should just TELL ME WHAT THE FUCK SHE WANTS so that there's ZERO CONFUSION

I don't get tang because I don't actively seek it out in bars and/or clubs. Not only that, I don't make the focal point of a relationship about sex which is probably another reason I don't get any

 

[katierose]

No girl will flat out say she likes you normally. If you want to know so bad, ask her YOURSELF. Be a man, don't be skurred.

Oh and if she's playing with her hair, that doesn't mean shit.

 

[The Ozzman]

No girl will flat out say she likes you normally.

Why? That doesn't make any sense at all.

If you want to know so bad, ask her YOURSELF.

Trouble is I shouldn't have to ask. If a woman does like me, she should be willing to communicate it rather than express her desire using cryptic hand gestures or body language

Be a man, don't be skurred.

NO U

Oh and if she's playing with her hair, that doesn't mean shit.

Probably not for you, but I was just using it as an example because someone might do that if they like someone

 

[katierose]

If I ask how old you are and how many ladies you've dated, I'm sure that will answer why you are saying such retarded things. No offense, but come the fuck on.

 

[The Ozzman]

Or maybe they aren't retarded at all

 

[CF87]

No girl will flat out say she likes you normally. If you want to know so bad, ask her YOURSELF. Be a man, don't be skurred.

Oh and if she's playing with her hair, that doesn't mean shit.

Anytime have seen a female play with her hair thought it meant she was frusterated/annoyed or bored.

 

[King Richard]

Why? That doesn't make any sense at all.

Trouble is I shouldn't have to ask. If a woman does like me, she should be willing to communicate it rather than express her desire using cryptic hand gestures or body language

NO U

Probably not for you, but I was just using it as an example because someone might do that if they like someone

 

[The Ozzman]

I guess some people like playing games

Rick: If you can convey the point without being an asshole, do it.

 

[Vimana]

I don't understand football.

 

[Dak]

Poor Ozz

I didn't go looking for a girl, I just got lucky had an awesome one sort of fall in my lap. Looking in a bar really is like the worst place, unless you see a girl who looks kind of out of place.

Edit: And from what girls who are friends have told me, they usually know whether they would fuck you or not within like a few minutes of talking to you, regardless of how long it is before you "get some". So katie is right about that.

 

[False Joe]

Not always true.

Hell, one girl I know claimed she would never, ever sleep with one of my mates.

They've been going out since January time.

 

[SentinelSlain]

I have this really cool strategy with chicks. It's called not bothering.

 

[Blind Guardian]

A better strategy is to grow thick skin and remember that every guy gets turned down 9 times out of 10, it's no big deal to get turned down.