The Whining and Bitching Thread

Psychologists won't help that. In fact, all they're good for is diagnosing you so they can send you to a psychiatrist who in turn will do nothing but throw pills at you until you realize that this whole process had been a total waste of time.

Hypnotherapy is way different from psychotherapy. I'm seeing a hypno and a psychotherapist. I wouldn't go to a psychiatrist if I was referred.

It seems to be a common misconception that this type of shit doesn't work for anybody.
 
No. I'm paying someone to help me with things from my past that haunt me. It's not as simple as 'getting over it', especially when there's repressed shit in your life.

It mainly boils down to the fact that I've never been happy with myself and it's probably a big reason why I took this breakup so hard. I was trying to fill the void of happiness with someone when I should have been trying to make myself happy the whole time.

And what are they telling you to do to help you?
 
And what are they telling you to do to help you?

Well, the first session with the psychotherapist was an introductory session. Getting to know me, etc, figuring out what issues I need to work on, etc. I'm sure it'll bear more fruit as time goes along.

With hypnotherapy, it's focusing on aspects of me and not my ex. I know you probably think that's simple, but my brain is wired differently from yours and it's not so easy to just not think about her. I was with her for a fucking year. You don't get over that shit in a month.
 
Well, the first session with the psychotherapist was an introductory session. Getting to know me, etc, figuring out what issues I need to work on, etc. I'm sure it'll bear more fruit as time goes along.

With hypnotherapy, it's focusing on aspects of me and not my ex. I know you probably think that's simple, but my brain is wired differently from yours and it's not so easy to just not think about her. I was with her for a fucking year. You don't get over that shit in a month.

I hear ya. I was with my ex for two and a half months and I'm still head-over-heels for her, despite how I'd never tell her that.
 
my ex-roomate somehow reported my debit-card stolen
the card in my pocket is useless
i have to wait 10 days to get a new one
 
Fuck I don't think I've ever been to a good NYE party. It's always the same. I refuse to plan anything anymore because when I planned it it was even worse in the end. It's just some sort of a curse that it's always disappointing. But I don't give a shit. I can get drunk today. And tomorrow. Whatever.
 
Nah, I haven't seen the Hobbit. I nearly put a kid in the ground for smacking my, well, I wouldn't call her my girlfriend, but her ass. I sorta blacked out. Not proud of it. Oh well.
 
Nah, I haven't seen the Hobbit. I nearly put a kid in the ground for smacking my, well, I wouldn't call her my girlfriend, but her ass. I sorta blacked out. Not proud of it. Oh well.

Wow, what a douche. The guy probably got what he deserved. At least you didn't go to jail for it, though.
 
Honestly I wouldn't have regretted it if I had. Would have still taken the same course of action regardless of consequences.

Yes, I get very possessive when I like a girl. :lol: R.J. CAN BE ALPHA MALE WHEN HE WANTS TO BE