The Whining and Bitching Thread

I totally hear you. I havent quite been to the same extent, but definitely a lot of anxiety and stress lately.

Get some help, do it. I'm seeing a psychologist tomorrow, and I actually feel excited about it. I want to solve my problems, get stronger again, and get back to being the happier me. Not this morbid stressy shit, I'm over it.

Did you know this year is meant to be the year of the Ox? i.e. the year of hard work. I know a lot of people who are already burnt out and quite demoralised. You're not alone, trust me.

Write down a list of the things you like about your life. Put aside what is frustrating you, and be honest about what you like. Put this on a sticky note, and stick it on your monitor somewhere. Trust me, it helps. Keep it simple, think about the basic things which make you happy because these are the things which really do matter, and they last.

And as tacky as it sounds, if you have a shred of spirituality in you (read, not normal religious shit), then dive into it. Dream catchers, crystals, fucking dive into it. Seek some mental direction, meditate, do some yoga, stretching helps a LOT, the body hammers itself when stressed, so release it.

And also, being creative helps. Some of you may have noticed I've been hammering out gig photos lately. That's my strength builder. So maybe try something creative.

You can do it. Fight this dark shit and get strong again. There's too much good shit out there to do.

Don't know where you got this from, unless you mean to help channel dark forces out, e.g. some crystals absorb dark energy and then need to be cleansed after they've been used.

It depends on how they're used and what crystal you're using. Obsidian for example can have extremely powerful results, it can intensify negativity but also is used to draw out stress. It tends to soak up energy though, which is why it can be positive and negative and has to be used carefully.

All comes down to the practitioner.

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Even if Crystals do have magical properties, and dream catchers do 'catch dreams', WHY? Why do both of those things work? Why are the native americans beliefs infact true as well as whoever [the hell] came up with crystal balls? Why? Why do I have to stop thinking and just give in to some weird shit? Why is that better than religion?
 
All depends on what works for the individual, it's not about giving in as opposed to finding what you connect with... and dont get me wrong, I'll be the first person to shun organised religion without blinking twice.

Humans have a need to have faith and familiarity in something. It's just the way we are, and obviously I guess different things work and appeal to us all.
 
Wow you people become more open-minded by the minute.

I can't wait for a tragedy to befall one of you, and we'll see how well your coping mechanism works :)

If you need to use blind faith in hocus-pocus airy-fairy bullshit to cope with a tragedy, it says a lot more about the weakness of your character than it does about the open-mindedness of those who choose to live in the real world.
 
If you need to use blind faith in hocus-pocus airy-fairy bullshit to cope with a tragedy, it says a lot more about the weakness of your character than it does about the open-mindedness of those who choose to live in the real world.

According to YOU, and based on YOUR opinion. I could say exactly the same about your views on these things, but quite clearly, I haven't bothered. I don't feel the need to comment on that.

You don't see me condemning you guys for your beliefs in this thread. My beliefs work for me, and help me in my life, as I'm sure your own do for you.
 
According to YOU, and based on YOUR opinion. I could say exactly the same about your views on these things, but quite clearly, I haven't bothered. I don't feel the need to comment on that.

No shit, and so what?

You don't see me condemning you guys for your beliefs in this thread. My beliefs work for me, and help me in my life, as I'm sure your own do for you.

Then why say this:

I can't wait for a tragedy to befall one of you, and we'll see how well your coping mechanism works :)

Fucking typical passive-aggressive hypocritical hippie cunt.
 
Fagster, are you fucking serious? Your post is the most hilarious thing I've read in a long time.

Crystals, Dream catchers, and spirituality? :lol:

thanks for the laugh you gullible faggot.
What the fuck are you doing on this forum anyway? GTFOOGMD!

So...
For the Ozzman's problem and similar shit to that.
What you ppl really need to do for improving your sucking life is to stop being sorry for your dumb selves! Literally - stop whining. Trust me, girls, there are lots of ppl who live much worse than you and they try to be happy. I would understand it if you were a cripple, homeless, mortally ill or something... but when you are alive, able to think and move - for fucks sake - shut the fuck up and do something about your stupid problems. If you are too lazy or pesimistic about it - then just keep on rotting in your own shit. And don't bother to cry to ppl who are more successful than you. Just remember that there are ones who live much better than you, not necessary they are luckies, most of them are just stronger and wiser than you.
If it's a system that you get the wrong girls all the time, get the wrong job, or get into the same stupid situation - then maybe it's a sign that you have to think about it and change something? Firstly - change it about yourself. That's it.
As for what Hubster said about spiritual things - I somewhat agree with him. You mightlaugh as much as you want, but your ignorance won't make you wait. Living a life of "piece of meat" that only is worried about getting a new ipod\car\house, fucking a chick or eating at McDonalds isn't that awesome imo, but as life shows - many of ppl don't mind. So good luck. Keep living in self-destruction.
 
I agree with Hubster on one premise: if you don't believe what someone else believes then good for you. Trying to insult them for what they believe in is stupid, and if you think it's cool or you are justified in your attacks, then you are stupid.

Zeph, it wasn't that long ago that you were a Catholic right? I'm sure if someone was insulting you personally because of whatever you believed in, regardless of how crazy it may sound, I'm sure you'd be pissed.

I have nothing against anyone here who was attacking Hubster, even though swizzlenuts comment was totally uncalled for. But seriously, let's drop the self-righteous acts and let him think what he wants. You're not better than he just because you believe something different no matter how much shit you throw.
 
When you're not feelin too cheerful it's probably time to get a cheap flight to somewhere shit and sunny and fuck off to some hotel, and go out and get sun stroke and sit next to some bitch who wouldn't give you the time of day back home and drink nicked wine with her. Then have unprotected sex behind the telifonica movistar sign.
 
haha, I'm going to Florida with my dad next week so hopefully that helps my mental and emotional state. I'm going to see a dietician and do a sleep study when I get back from my trip
 
GL man. I hope it works out. Get out of that black hole, any way you can, as long as it's up. :)

Neurotica and King Drunkard: thanks both.

Yeah, I know I'm a fucked up hippy. Sorry, but I like it and I'm sure not going to hide it. I've tried the trip that the majority of you are on, and I found it totally empty, shallow and disconnected. Not my gig.
 
I've tried the trip that the majority of you are on, and I found it totally empty, shallow and disconnected. Not my gig.

And what would that be? You seem to be full of knowledge so I'd like to know what I'm doing wrong. How should I live life to the fullest? I sure as hell don't want to keep my empty, shallow and disconnected way going.