The Whining and Bitching Thread

That sounds like clinical depression. A break up shouldn't be doing that to you, unless maybe it happened only a couple weeks ago or something. Don't get too used to that drinking. I was depressed for a while and developed a pretty bad drinking habit to the point where the therapist I was seeing told me I was on the fast track to becoming an alcoholic. You'll probably be fine, though. At some point you'll just enjoy being on your own. You have to, otherwise you won't be able to get anything done.

It's been about 5 weeks or so now, so I think I'll be fine. I've broken up before and I've been in longer relationships, but for some reason this one seems to have affected me alot harder. I've decided to pursue other goals and keep myself busy.

I'm going to try to quit smoking and even if quitting doesn't go too well, dropping by a notch will definitely help. Especially if I want to get as fit as I was. Also going to try learn some flamenco and improve my jazz guitar playing. There's also the uni factor where I'm going to do my assignments in time and study more often.

The hardest part is going to be having to deal with my ex when I go to uni... But that can't be helped.
 
I need to pull myself out of this hole that I've dug myself in after the break up. Insomnia, binge drinking, chain smoking, short tempers and only eating one meal a day. I sleep at 4 or 5 am every night and only for 4 hours. Blargh. I've lost 4kg since the break up from the lack of eating. This shit isn't healthy.

It's not, and you can beat it. Unsolicited 2 cents is don't try to kick all the vices at once, work on them one at a time. Definitely cut back on/stop drinking first. Alcoholism is pretty hideous.
 
My whining and bitching today: It seems that last Friday i had an English exam and i was totally unaware of it, because i wasn't attending class lately. So, i was absent on that day. Now i have to convince my teacher that i was sick and let her reschedule a make-up exam.
 
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So my birthday was on the 1st of April and pretty much everyone I know sans my mom, dad, bro, and one aunt remembered/knew. I never heard anything from the rest of my family or any of my friends. It's really not a big deal to me because I know everyone has lives and whatnot so I didn't expect everyone to stop what they're doing just to say happy birthday (not like texting is hard though). But the thing that gets me is I've talked to a lot of people since then and no one even had a clue. lol?

The thing that did bother me was the fact that I never heard anything from Ashley. I really tried not letting it bother me but I ended up breaking down and texting her and then later called her to see what was going on. She didn't forget apparently, she was just busy with an influx of family members vacationing at her parents place.
 
So my birthday was on the 1st of April and pretty much everyone I know sans my mom, dad, bro, and one aunt remembered/knew. I never heard anything from the rest of my family or any of my friends. It's really not a big deal to me because I know everyone has lives and whatnot so I didn't expect everyone to stop what they're doing just to say happy birthday (not like texting is hard though). But the thing that gets me is I've talked to a lot of people since then and no one even had a clue. lol?

The thing that did bother me was the fact that I never heard anything from Ashley. I really tried not letting it bother me but I ended up breaking down and texting her and then later called her to see what was going on. She didn't forget apparently, she was just busy with an influx of family members vacationing at her parents place.

I'm guessing you didn't have a party or advertise it at all?