this forum is depressing

then we agree, and i didnt read properly.
i've always regarded europe as being 'non-american'. do you think europe's become a slave towards that US mentality?
 
I am SURE people on this board are pretty sensitive. Sarcasm is not a mask but a tool, or at least that's how I see it. Somehow I feel the more sensitive one is, the more he feels the need of sarcasm, maybe it's something to counterbalance sensitivity, cause they can get hurt by things some people wouldn't give a shit about.

"about sarcasm and that... its all from lack of information and education and empathy and so.. People are ignorant. and they dont know enough about emotions, social interactions, about how things work phisically and systematically between humans" -- I completely disagree with this, I think it's just the contrary. I could say if one doesn't get my sarcasm or irony it's because s/he's not empathic or intelligent enough, or doesn't know/care about me well enough.

Still, I understand your frustration sometimes. But I also feel you too want to look strong. (e.g. "If you dare" lol). And it's pretty normal. I don't want to be a loser either. "But then again, who does?"

And I also feel your feelings come from something personal, not some general view of the world, but apologies if it's not the case. And it's none of my business either :)
 
Dhatura said:
"about sarcasm and that... its all from lack of information and education and empathy and so.. People are ignorant. and they dont know enough about emotions, social interactions, about how things work phisically and systematically between humans" -- I completely disagree with this, I think it's just the contrary. I could say if one doesn't get my sarcasm or irony it's because s/he's not empathic or intelligent enough

And I also feel your feelings come from something personal, not some general view of the world, but apologies if it's not the case.

it's not the case really.. i view things as i wrote but true, i have emotions about it (emotions can only be personal i guess.. :)
some part of my point you misunderstood.. What I wanted to say above is that all frustration and sensitiveness "weakness" and rigidity and all which we take as a part of someones unique personality, are just syptoms that made by rules that work on all of us in the same way. most of them are done in early childhood, it's like pulling the card and then its what you have to play with. being afraid and unsure and aware of people or jumping among them to disappear in the crowd and these.. even if some behavours are "not normal", all of them apply to the same rules, to games people play, and hormons and goals, same big fears of death and all and little personal fears of its own. That is the reason why the ability to change is such a strong and worthy thing and something that fades away by time :( If people think about and LEARN about these things then they have no reason to hide away.. or to show something untrue. and if someone says something about me e.g - thats just an opinion, i can even take it into consideration if close to real but if someone thinks i have bad qualities its OK, cos I know I have, i think its really fucking normal not to be perfect or uniform like. So if someone is just joking around only with sarcasm to keep the distance, it's OK, his right but I still feel pity of him/her who has such frustrating feelings and fears that make it necessary. Trust is not only a foolish thing anyway...
 
all my "moon" comments were sarcastic mockeries on strangelight's comment anyway, so true, it's not a good way to express ourselves :)
 
Strangelight said:
mock my comment all you want but Ive seen the girl/moon thing with my very own eyes, many many times an all

And what happened? Did she turn into a witch and flew around the roof thirty-three times then off to the Eastern horizon?
 
Dhatura said:
I rewrote this song:

Don't blame it on Sunshine
Don't blame it on Strangelight
Don't blame it on Toolsofthetrade (you have to say it quick, you know)
Blame it on Mehdi, Mehdi

:D

Avvan, hogy a dalszövegírók is lelkibetegek, wazze :loco: