I think the most shocking thing about this entire thread, is the lack of understanding from COMIC BOOK READERS in terms of how canon/alternate universes/etc work. If you came into this third movie and were upset due to Nolan's treatment of the film being completely different to how Batman is portrayed in the comics, that sucks - sorry. If you've seen the first two and STILL expected fidelity the source material, there's something very very wrong with you.
How a character should or shouldn't act, is CONJECTURE. It's NOLAN's screenplay, not DC's, not Tim Burton's. Nolan's.
I wouldn't call the animated series superior to Nolan's, but that's just me. The universes are far too different from one another for a comparison - but I grew up with the animated series and love that one for sure.
I'm not sure how you could love the first two and not love this. They were set in completely different universes much like TDKR. You say that I "missed" your point, but I didn't. You use the phrase "captured perfectly" when describing Alfred, Gordon, and Wayne (assuming you mean Bruce right?), but that's the thing - they're NOT "captured" from anything. They're original characters that are based off the comics in the general sense, but not in the narrative. When I saw the preview for Batman Begins back in around 2005 or so, and they showed Bruce Wayne doing ninjutsu training (in no less, what was I believe a non-Japanese pacific island nation), I thought it was the dumbest fucking thing I'd ever seen. It has nothing, NOTHING, I repeat... NOTHING to do with the comics or the animated series. And if you wanted to get conjectural, the idea of Bruce doing ninjutsu training is antithetical to Batman's character, because Ninjas were honorless, cold-blooded killers.
And of course, this is all spirited. Opinions are indeed like assholes. I guess I just don't get where those of you who are talking about expectations not being met because of characters not maintaing fidelity to something else are coming from. Alfred and Gordon are minor characters across all 3 movies, how are you supposed to know how they'd act anyways?