think of two types of people.
1)this person thinks of music as simply another form of entertainment. like going to the movies, watching soccer, watching tv etc. these types of people dotn look deeply into music and simply want to get instant satisfaction (pop music is designed and manufactured to meet these peoples needs. lets face it.. the majority of people fit into this category as can be seen by record sales and profits.)
2) a perosn who sees music as an artform. more then just a form of entertainment, something much deeper. These people search deeper for music that is complex, interesting, different , something that satisfys a never ending craving to heard more excellent music.
i think you have to be a person 2 to even give opeth a listen, anyoen who considers music nothing more then entertainment will think opeth is a waste of time.
Opeth doesnt give you an instant hit, it requires patience, its not instantly as catchy as other bands, albums tend to grow on you after several listens.
For someone completely new to the death vox you need to be open minded in order for you to get through the inital bombadment, and state of confusion that i remember experiencing when i first listened to orchid.
I remember thinking the guitar melodies were awsome and the music was so emotional and melodic that i could maintain my interest even though i was totally confused as to where the songs were ehading and what all the massive growling was about.
The problem I often get with handing opeth to my friends is that i have hyped them up to be so awsome. They listen to it once and go WHAT THE HELL IS THE BIG DEAL. i forgot to remember that when i first listened to opeth it didn't instantly click. I found people enjoy them much more if i said nothing about their talent and simply say hey "take this cd home and listen to it".
anyway there is a few paragraphs of bullshit for you to read on the topic.
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