Final_Product said:
Alot of sleep theory believes that dreams are actually just the minds occupation while our bodies are inactive. With no real, physical environment for the mind to root itself in, it becomes distracted and tends to wander through unassociated thoughts, images, situations, memories and so on.
Actually, there are (rougly) three kinds of dreams we have:
First is one you are talking about, these are just the way mind is dealing with informations and impresions we have during time we are awake. This is mechanism that helps us to deal with problems psychologically.
Second are dream that are internal comunication, subconcious to consiouss mind, and can be different, going from dreams that are telling us how to cope with certain problems, or telling us more about ourselves, and our daily problems, and even giving us short look at future. (Btw, nothing fantastic, our mind is capable to "precalculate" some things, even if we are not able to use that capability intentionally. At least most of us)
While dreams from first group are more "muddy" not so clear, and does not leav strong feelings most of the time, the second group is much more easy to remember, leaves strong feelings after we woke up, and we have a feeling that it was a kind of "special".
One nice example (kind of short time prophetic) from this group would be a dream when I was dreaming phone call from a friend that I haven't seen in months. I picked up a phone in a dream but sound was still ringing. I have tried to explain to him that phone was broken, because I have picked it up, but it still rings. At that moment I have been awaken and found out that phone was ringing for real, and that it was reason for dreaming phone ringing. I have picked up a real phone finding out that it was actually this friend I have not seen for a long time calling, for real.
Other example would be when I have had a complicated love affair with one girl. In this dream there was a short conversation that was telling a lot about my motives in real life. I woke up, and while making morning coffee, I have found out myself singing chorus of an old Rainbow song (even if I am no particular Rainbow fan) that goes something like So coooooold etc. No meaning in that. After few minutes it finally hitted me that verse of this song (even if I was not dreaming verse only chorus of the song) was something like this: "Every night I have a same old dream, about you and me and what's in between, too many faces, too many lies". So in this example, subconsiouss mind was using this chorus that is more short and easily memorable to point me out to the key of understanding meaning of this dream.
I have choosen two more interesting and simple examples, but dreams can be very complicated, giving detailed explanations about events and psychological motives. Generally, the more person is open to know his inner feelings and motives, dream is less cluttered and symbolic, and can even become literar explanation.
Some of those dreams can also be very creative, I know that I am not only person to dream whole musical pieces, and even a new video from their favorite band, all together with a song, even it does not exist in reality.
Third group of dreams are rare, and some persons never have it and some have it few times during their lives. They are vivid, in a sense that they are more real than usual reality. Colors are stronger, sounds are bigger, senses are sharpened. They have feel of ultimata in the air and coming as a "Message from above", at least person can feel about it like this and carrying a taste of this dream for days and even weeks. A lot of great artists and historical persons were talking and writing about having those kind of dreams at important points in life, and those dreams have had deep influence on decisins in their life from that point. Search biographies and interviews with famous people for those events. (be it scientist or musician)
Btw, first two kinds of dreams are officially accepted (excluding some of the clairvoyant types) even from a point of modern psychology, so... not much use questioning that. Third group was partly accepted in some new schools of psychology but again as a part of the second group, because psychology is mostly part of atheistic religion by its nature. In religion, third group was taken very seriously
Talking about "Dream interpretations books", they are bullshit 95%. The language of dreams is universal, but just to a certain point. For instance, house, or closed box, can in a lot of cases represent ourselves, or very being soul, or water, see or river can represent emotional flow. But if someone has read some kind of a book as a kid where symbolicaly river represents flow of life, than in his dreams, river be a symbol for a life, not for emotions specifically. If someone is working on a dreams, first thing would be to learn a lot about symbols, language of symbolics, and then find out what is what in his own dreams. Dreams can even modify in time according to our self research. When I have found out that House probably represents my personality, few dreams showed me in no time that rooms will represent a parts of my personality, and that house I was growing up in will be part of personality built in childhood and my new appartement will represent parts of personality I got later in life etc. So in a way, it is a mutual learning, so if you learn about the way your subconsiouss mind, it will adopt too, and respond to your ideas, even choosing new symbols. So it is a kind of conversation, like two people from different cultures learning to communicate.
So at the end , again , not much use from books about interpreting dreams.
Also there are so called "consiouss dreams", but if someone gets consiouss in his dream and is able to control it, than it may be not dreaming anymore, but just different way of being awake.