next time im in jerseyMadeInNewJersey said:we would have a blast getting hammered together
Reign in Acai said:Mr Gugs,
May I ask what has put you so deeply in debt?
MadeInNewJersey said:Sure, I'm very open about it.
In short, I have a gambling problem. I say "have" like an alcoholic is always supposed to say they're an alcoholic, not that they were an alcoholic.
Anyway, I was really crushing in sales, circa 2000-2003, just making more money than a 28-year-old should have, and I started sports betting, heavily. Well it got out of hand. I lost a little over $50K in 3 years. Then the bottom dropped out of the market I was in, and it's been an uphill climb ever since. Add in rising cost of living (in NY/NJ), more expenses, and my foolish spending habits, and voila! Lots of debt.
I'm doing a little better at it, I'm nearly done w/ my student loan. And within the next 3 months, I'll wipe out 3 of the smaller debts. Which leaves the big one (debt consolidation), but that's a program I'm a part of that I'll be paying off until I'm 36 (another 3 1/2 years).
It's all good, it just kind of delayed the progression in my life for a bit.
FYI, and I only say it because I'm proud of myself, Dec. 19th, 2005 was the exact 3-year anniversary of the last time I made a sports bet.
good for you man, hope it didn't set you back too farMadeInNewJersey said:Sure, I'm very open about it.
In short, I have a gambling problem. I say "have" like an alcoholic is always supposed to say they're an alcoholic, not that they were an alcoholic.
Anyway, I was really crushing in sales, circa 2000-2003, just making more money than a 28-year-old should have, and I started sports betting, heavily. Well it got out of hand. I lost a little over $50K in 3 years. Then the bottom dropped out of the market I was in, and it's been an uphill climb ever since. Add in rising cost of living (in NY/NJ), more expenses, and my foolish spending habits, and voila! Lots of debt.
I'm doing a little better at it, I'm nearly done w/ my student loan. And within the next 3 months, I'll wipe out 3 of the smaller debts. Which leaves the big one (debt consolidation), but that's a program I'm a part of that I'll be paying off until I'm 36 (another 3 1/2 years).
It's all good, it just kind of delayed the progression in my life for a bit.
FYI, and I only say it because I'm proud of myself, Dec. 19th, 2005 was the exact 3-year anniversary of the last time I made a sports bet.
man as robot said:you take the good, you take the bad, you take the rest, and there you have... moose crying on the floor covered in his abusive lovers semen.
i think this is key in any stage of life. if anything, it keeps you distracted from whatever it is that gets you down. the only time i get really bummed out is if i'm bored, which isn't often. there's always a book to read, a movie to watch, a job to go to, a bathroom to clean, a dick to yank, a beer to drink, a forum to invade, or a girl to harass.Nate The Great said:Finding any organized activity that you enjoy is CRITICAL in college. Introverts have to force themselves to do it.
once I was NAD said:i don't get enough exercise or pussy. other than that, i fucking rule.
also this is on page 4 and i didn't read any of the thread. can't imagine what discussed here so far.