Ahhh..the same question everywhere! WE ARE HERE, C'MON! Metalgirls can be find anywhere, all type of 'em, power-death-black, you just have to search for them! Maybe most of us don't look "metal" at first glance (I do though) that's why you guys have to talk to us.
And about most metalgirls already have a boyfriend... it must be the same with metalboys too. Some of them are have a gf some of them not.
Okay, I DO have a bf, a black metal loving guitarist, but I know girls who are not.
And about clothes. I HATE those chiks who thinks that they'll be so f*cking black metal with wearing black all the time, their lips are black too such as their hair...it's about the MUSIC! I wear my fav bands T-shirt too, but I know that most of these girls are fake...so a metal-looking-girl can be stupid too, but you'll find out when you chat with 'em.
So get ready, steady guys and find the TRUE metal ladies!
(BTW, I'm mostly into power metal, but I like extreme metal too, such as CoB, Kalmah, Arch Enemy etc...)