Nick and his crazt woman problems

[Wolfman Von Jones]

Well time to help your good pall Nick. My friend Liz is a very, intelligent, attractive, and kind person. I known her for about a year, and im extremely attracted to this person. She is the first woman I could sit down with and have a discussion about Adolf Hitler and she knows what the hell she talking about. If I tell her how I feel and she feels the same way, I have no problems, but if I tell her how I feel and she doesnt feel the same then things between us might get all weird. Help people ill be taking your advice to heart.

Nick( Needs to wake up and smell the Carcass)

 

[rahvin]

i guess there has to be some way to know a thing or two about the way she feels for you in advance. you don't have to resort to any kind of insider trading on the part of common friends if you don't want to. just try and look closely at how she behaves/talks with you. is there physical contact between you? does she get closer than one would normally expect from anyone else, given the fact that you're an ugly bastard p just joking)?
hint: netting out informations about adolf hitler may not foster your cause.

rahvin.

 

[red_beef]

Errr... Don't look at me, I'm bad with this girl stuff. but I would advise to go slow with this girl. Just don't rush in. It might freak her. Some girl like straight in the face other don't. I think rahvin said what I think is a good move.

 

[|ngenius]

Ahhhh, NickTheClayman opened another romantic box here, and now I can smell the sweet aroma of a heart running thorugh deep feelings.

(joke) Ok, maybe you're not concious yet, but you're in the middle of a war! She will plan some challenges to you. For instance, she'll say: "Ahh, you're my best friend". This is the worst sign you can see!! She means sth such: "There won't be sex in our relationship" . You should know exactly which step will drive you to be her friend... ...to avoid it! Remember: You don't wanna be her friend, but sth more! They are mostly evil-minded, and will try to cover you in lies. So, play your best cards, and kill the enemy!! (/joke) (I used the tags this time)

*serious face here* The key is not to hide your feelings towards her. Show exactly the way you feel, and don't think about the consequences. It's a common thought to fear the consequences just 'cos there's a possible change in the friendly relationship, and you do nothing. But if you're in love, your own feelings will be too weight to carry them. If she does agree with the same feelings, the triumph is yours. Otherwise, both will be friends without keeping secrets. It sounds like a Disney movie, but don't hide yourself, just show you as you are and show all your feelings.

Btw: Hitler, as Rahve said, won't help you too much to reach that heart.
Btw (2): This subject could be perfectly a subject to post into the beloved "We all live dreaming..." thread.
Btw(3): I already know the hard way you're running through, but hey, you'll laugh when you'll be with her as her boyfriend! I STILL BELIEVE!


|ngenius (The romantic)

 

[rahvin]

Originally posted by |ngenius
but hey, you'll laugh when you'll be with her as her boyfriend!

yep. especially if you take this literally: you'll laugh when you'll be by her side along with her boyfriend.

rahvin. (the heartless)

 

[Wolfman Von Jones]

Ok well the whole reason I mentioned Hitler is b/c she is really huge into history like I am, and she is extremely intelligent. Thanks for the help everyone you told me everything I already knew, assholes , yeah I believe honesty is my believe that honesty is my best policy. I havent felt this way about a person in a really long time, it pisses me off that im falling in love with a person that might want nothing to do with me on a level other than friendship, but its something we all go through, I dont think there is one person who hasnt fallen in love with with a person that didnt feel the same way about them. Im not sure how much sense anything I said just made seeing as how I woke up 5 minutes ago. Well keep the suggestions coming I appreciate them very much.

@|ngenius, go eat an ass you prick I can post where ever I want.

Nick ( Loves women, hates greenbeans)

 

[rahvin]

Originally posted by NicktheClayman
yeah I believe honesty is my believe that honesty is my best policy.

ok, you stressed the point enough already: we'll go for honesty, no matter what.

Originally posted by NicktheClayman

I dont think there is one person who hasnt fallen in love with with a person that didnt feel the same way about them.

my, i don't really know what you two guys are up to but it took me some time just to realise whom exactly i've fallen in love with and how did that person feel about anything.

however, we don't know how your chick feels yet, let's just wait a while and see how things sort themselves out. besides, we would have been more accurate if you'd let us in to a few more details, you know? *eager to know*

rahvin.

 

[|ngenius]

Originally posted by NicktheClayman
@|ngenius, go eat an ass you prick I can post where ever I want.

It sounds kinda... romantic... . Anyway, thank you very much for your extreme worry for my feed, but asses and penis are not my cup of tea.


|ngenius.

 

[Wolfman Von Jones]

, No I mean in general, everyone falls in love with a person that doesnt love them back, and it sucks. Well Im off to work in an hour maybe ill see her tonight, I hope I do so I can finally get all this crap off my chest, and then Ill see what happens, although I get a bad feeling it could turn out alot of differant ways.

There arent many "details" to let you in on, I just really like this chick as I have stated before and want to spend a large amount of my life with her at the moment, I know all of her old boyfriends, they were or still are my friends, Im differant than the guys she has gone out with, im more agressive, but im not very aggressive, if that makes any fucking sense at all. Her old b/f' were all odd people, and by odd I mean people that I believe were attention grabbers, and I am totally not one. So there is a huge differance between me and all of her old b/f's, plus im more handsome

Nick ( hopless fuck)

 

[Thanatos]

Thanatos Love Advice #1: Unbotton the top of your shirt, the moment she sees your chest hair, she'll fall in love with you

Thanatos Love Advice#2: Never take any advice from Thanatos, he always gets all the girls, minus the one he's really interested in

 

[rahvin]

Originally posted by NicktheClayman
Im differant than the guys she has gone out with, im more agressive, but im not very aggressive, if that makes any fucking sense at all.

this kinda suggests her old bf's were all sissies.
have you tried investigating why she went out with odd ppl in the past? is she the "i'm gonna save you" kind? does she feel like she don't belong?
i know what matters is that you like her, but i was wondering if there were a few details (you could tell us) about your present relation that might be revealing to the keen eye.
anyways, good luck if it's for tonight/now.

rahvin. (the tired eye)

 

[Wolfman Von Jones]

Well we have been friends for about 2 years, I dont call her seeing as how I have never asked for her phone number (smart Nick), I never have a bad time when Im with her, we are decent friends, fuck its hard to tell you about her and my relationship at the present I dont see her often but when I do we both have a great time, well not sure if this is what you want Rahvn but its what your getting.

 

[mousewings]

Nick, ask her for her phone number!!! It is good to occasionally talk on the phone with a friend, even if you hate talking on the phone (like me). It is especially cool if you have intelligent things to talk about (like you and your friend do).

Take rahvin and the other people's advice for observing how she acts around you and observing the situations and circumstances involved.

Edited for lack of sleep grammar misspellings

 

[red_beef]

Best to ask the girl in here about their opinion. They might some tips.

- red_beef (never been good with this girl thingy)

 

[Wolfman Von Jones]

Yeah im dumb what do you want? I know I should get her phone number and I will today b/c ill prob be seeing her. Oh I can only hope

 

[mousewings]

Originally posted by red_beef
Best to ask the girl in here about their opinion. They might some tips.

Can ask me. Not sure if it will help as I am an odd vampire bat and may not react typically to some situations.

@Nick: Good luck. I am sure she will give you her phone number.

 

[Misanthrope]

Get a bottle of tequila, tell her, cry on your wait out when she says " i just see you like my friend " and have a copy of Projector near your modular ( you WILL need it )

Its better to have the balls to say it even knowing you dont fucking have a chance, you are happier if you DO get a chance but dont spoil it by thinking you have.

Misanthrope ( a bitter side to life )

 

[rahvin]

@misanthrope: second that wholeheartedly. but first one better make sure he's playing his cards wisely. no point in going to a girl and telling her everything while maybe all the time ignoring that she's dead worried for - say - her father's health and is not even listening to what you say. a few infos in advance never did any harm.

and after that, yes, nicktheclayman, go and make a brave effort even if you think you don't stand a chance. at least on your way out you can always tell her: "what the heck, you said no way but the guys on the dt board will be very proud of me!".
then she will probably took pity on you and get you laid.

rahvin.

 

[FatherVic]

damn Nick...I can't help you here neither....specially because I found my one accidentially...and of course I never wanted to fall in love again....And of course I chose the worst way to say, since I was so confussing, that she didn't understand a word....three days later, she confessed

fathervic (not planning lover)

 

[Wolfman Von Jones]

Well thanks all, I thought the whole situation over and talked to some of her friends today about her and I and how well that would work, then I told her how I felt, she didnt feel the same way, she said that she loves me as a friend and right then I knew I wasnt going to be more than friends with this girl, but wait this get alots better , I was later hanging out with my friend Marissa and Scott, we were all smoking alot of pot and having fun, Scott left to go get some smokes, and Marissa kissed me, told her that she had been in love with me for along time(I have also been interested since the first time I met her), and she really wants to be with me, so now Nick has a girlfriend not with the woman he felt for earlier in his life, but for the person who has loved him for along long time, Im happy and I might start to cry and get sentimental.

Nick( odd paradox)