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Well it wouldn't be my child (although yes I think I could be a parent now). It would be my sister's baby. She and her husband have been trying to get pregnant for over a year now but it isn't working. She's 37 and is now considered a "high risk" birth, so we've talked about me carrying the baby for her. Personally I think it would be a lot safer than her doing it. And i'd be happy to do it.
However my boyfriend said he might leave me if I do it.
And yes 20 is young, by my childhood best friend had a baby at 20 last September. It happens... I'm actually starting to really worry because if I have a kid, I want it to be really soon. I want to be a young parent, I don't want to be the type who's 50 years old when their child is 10.
However my boyfriend said he might leave me if I do it.
And yes 20 is young, by my childhood best friend had a baby at 20 last September. It happens... I'm actually starting to really worry because if I have a kid, I want it to be really soon. I want to be a young parent, I don't want to be the type who's 50 years old when their child is 10.
You can have a kid when 25 and still be a young mother. Trying too have a kid at 37 is indeed late. You would not be missing or wasting time just thinking about it for 2,3 more years just to make sure. Something like this could either be a really great or could just be horrible. I don't know. Something like this just seems to need a lot ALOT oF thought. It's not just about having a kid but being able to make sure the child has enough money and a good life and being able to put yourself secondary to your child, just all kinds of things. I am sure you think about all kinds of different things and do not have tunnel vision. This is your choice in the end you live with.
If you have your own art shop and need to run around and take calls maybe even travel,etc... whatever you do and are busy and have this little child with a diaper at such a young age you might think 'goddamn this child'
. What if you end up having to need someone to baby sit all the time and start to miss out on your own child because of conflicting scedules. You also need to be positive the person you have a kid with really wants it also and is not going to run out on you. I don't know shit but this is just my outlook on it.
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I agree. Getting married and having a kid when younger than 25 is a bad idea for a woman. One big risk is that it could very well happen that the woman gets divorced (divorce is much more common among couples that marry very young), and then she is a single mother trying to find a man again. Being a single mother is a big disadvantage, as many men (myself included) would never seriously date a woman who has a kid.Not that you probably care what I think, but you are too young to have or want a kid imo. I am not saying you could not take care of a kid,etc.. but settling down in such a way like that at a young age might not be good and you could regret it. I would wait till you are 25,30 and are sure you have done and accomplished what you want on your own and then think about something like that.
21,22 and wanting to have a kid or having a kid.
Maybe i'm just a really immature 20 year old or something!!!.
It's not much that. If a female was cool and hot and had a kid I would not mind. It's not like you are or have to be the kids father or would be expected to be.
I think a female under 25 would more likely try and support a kid no matter what because it's her kid where a male under 25 would just walk out from it. I also here females are more mature when it comes to these things. I can't speak for males, but If I got a female around 20,21 pregnant would be horrified. I just make enough money to cover my interests.
I think a female under 25 would more likely try and support a kid no matter what because it's her kid where a male under 25 would just walk out from it. I also here females are more mature when it comes to these things. I can't speak for males, but If I got a female around 20,21 pregnant would be horrified. I just make enough money to cover my interests.
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theres nothing wrong with wanting starting a family and having kids. im 22 and im done with partying and i really want to settle down and raise some metal kids
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Good for you.
Being a father is something I look forward to in life, although I don't want it to be too soon. Hopefully when I have enough financial security I can raise a family of little cookiecutters that listen to brutal death. Then I can overtake the board with my progeny.
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I would love to have children. Earlier than later. I dont wanna be an old man with a kid who wants me to play football with him and stuff, which I wouldnt be able to do. I wanna be able to play with my child, and be there for all his sports days, etc, cos mine was never there for me.
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I'm not suprised. This would be a spectacularly bad idea. It took Mrs Carcassian just over a year to get preggo with Uber-child number one, but that was because she'd been on the pill since the age of fucking 13 or something. It isn't unusual to take over 12 months to chuck the right mix up the old woman.
Having said that, kid number two was conceived pretty quickly.
On the age thing ? I think the number is immaterial as far as being "too young" is concerned. I have been with the same woman for almost ten years, and despite the odd day that I fantasise about wanting to slam her with me favourite hammer, I don't regret settling down at 22. Genocide Roach seems like a guy that could make a good dad (he's obviously a well sorted kind of chap), where as some of you goons should be steralised now to prevent further muddying of the gene pool.
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