Devasya Chāyā;9472175 said:The conversational rapist invited me to his house tonight. I'm taking baby steps in rejecting him. I said I'd only go if other people are going to be there, because I am not going to have a one-sided conversation with him that lasts for hours and is only about three subjects: girls he fell in love with/is in love with, guitars, how dysfunctional he claims his family is.
Again, it must be noted that straightforward rejection is a miss with him.
Ack. I know far too many people that have diarrhea of the mouth. Always yapping about the same 2 or 3 things, talking in circles, and they won't shut up unless you walk (sometimes you have to run!) away or become aggressive and hostile towards them.
Devasya Chāyā;9495549 said:I just said "are you seriously asking that?" for the ambiguity.
I am absolutely fucking sick of my posts being at the bottom of pages.
Devasya Chāyā;9495940 said:If I straight up tell him what I think I'm afraid he'll have an emotional breakdown. I just asked the ambiguous question to see if he indeed was that oblivious to what's going on.
Devasya Chāyā;9495940 said:If I straight up tell him what I think I'm afraid he'll have an emotional breakdown.
Devasya Chāyā;9497447 said:Because I'm not a total asshole who only cares about one's emotions if it's for sexual pleasure?
"Hey, Joe. Did that guy kill himself because you told him what you think of him?"
"Yeah, but I wasn't planning on having sex with him."
"Oh, then it's all good."
But in all honesty, I'm going to stop taking the cautious nice guy approach because it's not really working.