The Whining and Bitching Thread

Are you really looking to turn this into some divisive flamewar bullshit? Because I'm not prepared to do that right now. Maybe you should learn to respect my views more (or understand them better) and stop accusing me of asinine shit like being closed- and narrow-minded and describing me as "sad".

You could argue that, but personally I'd say filling your lungs with a few puffs of dope is a lot less harmful than breathing in car exhaust fumes or other shit that permeates in the atmosphere.

I'm pretty sure we're talking about drugs here, not everything in the world that is potentially harmful. Also, there is an important distinction between smoking marijuana and breathing in exhaust fumes. One is an entirely willful action and the other is a nearly inescapable byproduct of the way of life that we hardly of a choice in. The way people talk about marijuana sometimes almost makes it sound like it's unhealthy not to smoke it. No, willfully filling your lungs with smoke is harmful and irresponsible. Marijuana use damages your lungs. Maybe not as much as cigarettes, but to say that you oppose smoking cigarettes on the grounds that it's bad for your lungs but are fine with smoking marijuana is hypocritical, because they both damage the lungs.

Um, what? That's complete bullshit. Honestly, you need to do a little more research on the chemicals stored in the brain and its affects on the body. There are all sorts of chemicals that the human body itself releases to induce some sort of altered state of mind like adrenaline, melatonin, seratonin, dopamine, norepinephrine, and the list goes on. What the hell do you think is happening when you sleep man? Your body emits a chemical known as DMT or dimethyltryptamine, which is responsible for your dreams. All drugs do is trigger other chemicals in your body which causes the altered state of mind, nearly all of these occur naturally in the body. So where do you get the idea that sparking these chemicals through inhaling marijuana is irresponsible, especially when it causes no harm to the human body after the affects wear off?

What exactly is "bullshit" about what I said? I think the separation between naturally occurring 'alterations' triggered by neural reactive impulses such as adrenaline and the artificial creation of an altered state of mind through the consumption of drugs is pretty obvious. Honestly, I'm bothered by the fact that you would even bring that up as though it's somehow a cogent defense of the responsibility of willfully distorting the senses. The fact of the matter is that consuming drugs impairs your senses, as well as your judgment, and can easily lead to causing harm to oneself or to others. To suggest that the state of the mind under the influence of marijuana is somehow 'normal' or related to 'normal' alterations of regular brain function is being really disingenuous. Obviously drugs affect everybody differently and with varying degrees of severity, but knowing that smoking marijuana can leave you in an extremely vulnerable and cognitively compromised state and yet doing it anyway in the name of pleasure and hedonism is most definitely an act of irresponsibility. And please don't retort with something like "so does sleep", because the reasons why that argument would be absurd are numerous, not the least of which being that sleep is a necessary function of the human body to regenerate.

waat How does that not mean you're smoking dope responsibly?

Because it's impossible to responsibly be irresponsible. You're still harming yourself no matter how many precautions to take to limit the possibility of something retarded happening.

I have smoked dope before and can't say I'll never do it again. But is it a crutch to me? No. Where you make this connection is completely flooring me right now. What you're expressing right now about dependency and addiction comes in isn't an issue with drugs, it's an issue with human nature. Humans can become dependent and addicted to many more things than only drugs. To me, you come off as if you're afraid of experiencing these different drugs and their effect on the the body and brain. And you speak of weakness, there's no weakness in someone trying to explore the many avenues of altering their consciousness. What's weak is your complete close-mindedness on this issue and unwillingness to even understand the other side.

If my wording insinuated that I believe all drug use is done purely out of dependency and addiction then I apologize. I would also restate that line a lot less authoritatively, but whatever. In general, there's a pretty reasonable chance that doing drugs will lead to addiction and dependency, and addiction is a weakness, whereas dependency is a crutch. Obviously that is not the case for everybody in every instance. But your tangent about human nature is irrelevant here. It is well-documented that the more common recreational drugs come with the risk of psychological dependency, with the more extreme cases also being associated with physical dependency. Some people do suffer withdrawal from marijuana use, after all. The root cause of addiction and dependency is moot insofar as it relates to responsibly dealing with something. Coke can be addictive as well, but it's not going to impair your judgment and dull your senses, so engaging in a soda addiction, I feel, it would be reasonable to say is being less irresponsible than a drug addiction. And when we talk about addiction and dependency, we are obviously talking about weakness and crutches. Again, to be clear, right now I'm talking only about cases in which addiction and dependency come into play, not every instance of drug use.

I don't believe it's accurate, or frankly useful, to accuse somebody of fear in this instance. One doesn't need to find out for oneself to realize that deliberately impairing your ability to function rationally and react appropriately is irresponsible, which is essentially what being high or inebriated amounts to. Nor does one need to smoke and develop a chronic, severe cough to discover that smoking cigarettes is irresponsible. You think I don't understand the other side as though I don't believe people actually gain any pleasure from drug use, but of course I do. It's just easier to claim that I don't understand the argument from the other side. Anybody who listens to music would be naive to attempt to claim that it's impossible for anything good to be in any way related to the usage of drugs. But that really has nothing to do with my point. That good can come from something does not have any bearing on whether or not that something is responsible behavior. The decision to engage in drug use is a balance between pleasure, relief, and responsibility.

The point is, in order for you to justifiably look down upon others you need to be perfect in and of yourself. You are not perfect. Perfection of any form as a human is a physical impossibility, therefore your opinion of others and their actions is null and void. There's no way you could theorize that a person who smokes marijuana or drinks alcohol once in a blue moon is in any way shape or form inferior to you.

I feel pretty strongly that your claim here is absurd. Of course one does not have to be perfect in order to have a judgment about something external to himself. Such a claim would have to disallow for the possibility of looking down on oneself. If one were perfect, then one would have nothing to look down on. Yet people do so all the time. Now simply transfer that externally. The fact that we are imperfect can only mean for your argument, at best, that our judgments are imperfect, not that it's impossible to have judgments.

To further elaborate, I never claimed that perfection was a possibility, nor even said anything about perfection. Nor did I ever say that my view on the act of people engaging in drug use was particularly relevant outside of the way that I live my own life. And finally, I never, at any point, said that drug use makes one inferior to me. I feel this is important to stress because it sounds like this is the crux of your issue with my statement. I seriously never said, nor implied, that not using drugs makes one a better person than drug users. In fact, I stated outright that what I meant by 'looking down on' or 'thinking less of' (which I perhaps problematically used interchangeably) people using drugs was:

Not "less of them than of non-users", but "less of them than I would if they didn't do drugs".

If you re-read this quote, I think it's pretty obvious that I never claimed that the fact that I don't drink, for example, makes me better than you, or anybody who drinks or does drugs. After all, an individual is constituted of a lot more than simply whether or not they do drugs, and it would be absurd to judge a person entirely on that issue alone. I hope this false supposition was your problem with my statement and that I've made it more clear what I actually meant, because if not we may just have to agree to disagree, unless you want to yell at me and get mad more.

Edit: Actually I should add that just because something is irresponsible does not mean that I don't believe anybody should ever be allowed to behave irresponsibly or that irresponsibility is 'evil' and 'wrong'. That seems to be another misconception that people tend to have whenever I discuss this topic. *cough*Grant*cough* I don't believe in the banning or illegalization common illicit substances and I think a drinking age of 21 is absurd, especially when taking into account that 18 is good enough to defend your country with force. If you can wield a gun for your land, it's probably reasonable to think you're old enough to handle alcohol.
 
Dodens, I'm going to respond tomorrow because I need to go to bed. I just wanted to say that no I'm not trying to turn this into a flamewar. This is a good argument so I'll do my best to stick to the subject instead of using ad hominem remarks. Sorry about that.
 
I'm of the opinion that smoking pot once in a while (note: once in a while) isn't irresponsible. However, excessive use of anything is irresponsible, so naturally abusing it or any other drug would be considered so as well.
 
^ Basically. Nothing wrong or "irresponsible" about lighting up a joint every month or two just for the fuck of it. When it starts developing into abuse, or a habit, then yeah, that's irresponsible but there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a toke every so often, and if it's that big of a deal to you, I think that's just... overzealous.
 
Dodens two posts are just ridiculous showcases of a man who will not admit defeat. Do you always present a case and try your best to defend it no matter how reasonable the other persons argument may be? Or are you just that much of a white knight and actually believe all that shit you just said?
 
I can't log into the part of my university website that hosts a load of files I need to download. I don't even know when I'm supposed to collect a marked essay because of this. Balls.
 
Dodens two posts are just ridiculous showcases of a man who will not admit defeat. Do you always present a case and try your best to defend it no matter how reasonable the other persons argument may be? Or are you just that much of a white knight and actually believe all that shit you just said?

I never expected that the phrase "drug use is irresponsible" could ever possibly actually come under fire. The act is so inherently irresponsible to me that I tend to suspect that people arguing against it are afraid to admit that they sometimes behave irresponsibly, as though everybody in the world does not at times behave irresponsibly. I'm not a "white knight" and that is just a meaningless term used as a placeholder for an actual argument to attack those who choose not to behave in a selfish and decadent manner. If you thought drug use was irresponsible, would you abstain from it? I somehow doubt that. That it's irresponsible is merely my personal reason from not doing it. That and I don't like the taste of alcohol or cigarettes or the idea of willfully ceding control of my cognitive faculties. I don't care what people do as long as it doesn't interfere with anybody that doesn't want to be involved.
 
The fact that humans have such different opinions about drug use I find interesting and weird.It obviously comes down to personal belief and perhaps upbringing.I will whole heartedly admit to drug use being irresponsible but has not the wild carefree,fearless nature of youth ever found you wondering about certain substances? Alot of young people,myself included give in to such wild fantasies and often it's the submission to it that is far more significant and potent than the drug itself.I will never forget for instance the first occassion a needle entered my arm as an intoxicant,the wild rush of crossing moral boundaries and the drug itself was nothing more than an affirmation.I guess it just depends on how far one is prepared to go in life,I am very grateful for these experiences.But nobody should ever condone or encourage this,such is personal choice and will.
 
Hmmm, I was just trolling somebody who I thought would be easy to bug (I was right), but this turned into a full-fledged discussion. I guess I'll add my two cents so I'm not just the jackass at the beginning of the discussion.

Of course drug use is irresponsible. I thought that was part of the appeal. Nobody is responsible all the time and if that's the way you want to act out, so be it. Personally, I enjoy drinking alcohol on occasion but the rest of the drug world is not for me. Pot is just so lame (the culture that is) and makes people slightly shittier than they would be otherwise. Whenever my friends smoke, its like they have summoned a slightly worse version of themselves for a couple hours. I don't have much experience with harder drugs but frankly I'm glad for that.

Before all the pot smokers get up in arms, let me assure you that this is not a moral judgment. I am not looking down on you. I'm just going on my personal experiences of being around high people. I'm a little concerned that my judgment of people really bothers some people on this board, although admittedly I was trolling. If you want to get high, I hope you do without worrying about what cookiecutter on the Ultimate Metal Forum thinks about it.
 
My grandparents were head figures in the local temperance movement, and I guess I have inherited some of their values because I agree a lot with Dodens Grav and Cookiecutter here. And I agree on the pot culture, from my (small) experience of being around pot smokers, the only thing that happens is that they become more stupid and anti-social, and this has made me recoil from everything associated with it.
 
Filling your lungs with smoke is not inherently bad? How can you seriously shrug off all potential health hazards of smoking marijuana? Its legality is irrelevant to me. Smoking marijuana is acting irresponsibly by the very nature of the effect that the drug has on the mind. Being under the influence of mind-altering substances puts yourself and others at risk. This is my main issue, though not my only problem. Just because you may sit in your room listening to music doesn't mean you're "smoking marijuana responsibly" as though there is such a thing. Likewise with alcohol in excess (which is the only thing that I specified as "in excess", by the way). My main issue with cigarettes, of course, outside of the health issue, is the dependency issue. I consider all recreational drugs a crutch and something to be avoided, and the usage of drugs to be a demonstration of weakness, especially when addiction and dependency comes into play.

Tell me, what exactly is so bad about thinking less of a person because of what they do? Am I supposed to be strictly egalitarian and love everybody, or can I value drug usage less and an interest in learning more? It's not like I hate people who do drugs, think that they're bad people, or even think that they're incapable of being a 'better' person than I am. I just think less of them because of their drug usage/dependency/addiction. Not "less of them than of non-users", but "less of them than I would if they didn't do drugs".

Hmmm, I was just trolling somebody who I thought would be easy to bug (I was right), but this turned into a full-fledged discussion. I guess I'll add my two cents so I'm not just the jackass at the beginning of the discussion.

Of course drug use is irresponsible. I thought that was part of the appeal. Nobody is responsible all the time and if that's the way you want to act out, so be it. Personally, I enjoy drinking alcohol on occasion but the rest of the drug world is not for me. Pot is just so lame (the culture that is) and makes people slightly shittier than they would be otherwise. Whenever my friends smoke, its like they have summoned a slightly worse version of themselves for a couple hours. I don't have much experience with harder drugs but frankly I'm glad for that.

Before all the pot smokers get up in arms, let me assure you that this is not a moral judgment. I am not looking down on you. I'm just going on my personal experiences of being around high people. I'm a little concerned that my judgment of people really bothers some people on this board, although admittedly I was trolling. If you want to get high, I hope you do without worrying about what cookiecutter on the Ultimate Metal Forum thinks about it.

Several layers of criticism have already been stripped away in these posts, so let's summarize so we know what we're dealing with:

"Legality is irrelevant"

This is good, because I'm sure we can all agree that just because the "law" constitutes something does not mean it is in any way best or even rational. Laws begin to function ideologically when people begin to think that there is somehow an inherent, universal truth behind the law. However, this isn't happening here since legality isn't an issue.

"This is not a moral judgment"

Also good, because it's asinine to try and argue that there is an inherent moral flaw in drug use. I'm sure everyone agrees on this as well.

"Irresponsible"

This is where the crux of the argument is, and it's the most interesting part; irresponsible for whom? Certainly for the user; that goes without saying. Dodens mentions that smoking in one's room isn't "smoking responsibly;" but I contend that it is certainly more responsible than those who smoke on their drive to work. Thus, people can be responsible toward others while being irresponsible toward their own bodies.

Smoking might be an unhealthy act, but so is eating poorly and not exercising. Plenty of pot smokers eat very well (there are tons of vegan pot smokers), and many also exercise. Instead of labeling smoking as an "unhealthy" habit (since plenty of people who don't smoke are far less healthy than people who do), let's label it a "risky" habit. Now, risky habits also include skydiving and mountain climbing, acts that pose no danger to others, but do to the subjects themselves; these acts are also healthy (especially mountain climbing, which is a form of exercise). That doesn't mean that risk is not involved; so, are people who engage in these types of activities also irresponsible? Health insurance companies think so.

Now, the central component of the argument is whether or not it's okay for parents to manage their teenagers' money. I have two questions: 1) do they know you've taken drugs (i.e. bought drugs with your money)? 2) how did you earn this money?

If they don't know you've done drugs and are just managing your money because they fear you might act responsibly, that's reprehensible. Institutions reserve no right to intervene simply because they assume someone might act irresponsibly. Now, if they caught you smoking or know you do, managing your money might be an act of trying to protect their own assets (i.e. the money/time they've invested in you thus far); ergo, I can't really blame them for doing so.
 
Who gives a fuck if anyone is a drunk or does drugs,it's not up to anyone else to pass judgement.As for me I do both,own a very nice house and lots of goodies,if anyone tells me how to live I will tell them to go and fuck themselves.
 
Interesting discussion.

"Legality is irrelevant"

This is good, because I'm sure we can all agree that just because the "law" constitutes something does not mean it is in any way best or even rational. Laws begin to function ideologically when people begin to think that there is somehow an inherent, universal truth behind the law. However, this isn't happening here since legality isn't an issue.

Certainly; I've spoken on a number of occasions on this forum about the absurdity of drug laws and the nature of the legitimacy of law, so I was surprised this was even brought up.

"This is not a moral judgment"

Also good, because it's asinine to try and argue that there is an inherent moral flaw in drug use. I'm sure everyone agrees on this as well.

Indeed, I never intended to speak from a perspective of morality, or at least not pop-culture morality.

"Irresponsible"

This is where the crux of the argument is, and it's the most interesting part; irresponsible for whom? Certainly for the user; that goes without saying. Dodens mentions that smoking in one's room isn't "smoking responsibly;" but I contend that it is certainly more responsible than those who smoke on their drive to work. Thus, people can be responsible toward others while being irresponsible toward their own bodies.

Naturally, it's more responsible, or more accurately less irresponsible to take precautions in order to prevent their own actions from affecting others. I will continue to argue however that recreational drug use by its very nature is irresponsible at the very least to the self, although it sounds like you do not disagree with that.

Smoking might be an unhealthy act, but so is eating poorly and not exercising. Plenty of pot smokers eat very well (there are tons of vegan pot smokers), and many also exercise. Instead of labeling smoking as an "unhealthy" habit (since plenty of people who don't smoke are far less healthy than people who do), let's label it a "risky" habit. Now, risky habits also include skydiving and mountain climbing, acts that pose no danger to others, but do to the subjects themselves; these acts are also healthy (especially mountain climbing, which is a form of exercise). That doesn't mean that risk is not involved; so, are people who engage in these types of activities also irresponsible? Health insurance companies think so.

While I think that it's fair to bring up other aspects of lifestyle, I would say that it is difficult to find a truly symmetric comparison; for example, eating unhealthy foods still provides the body with nourishment and sustenance, while not exercising is not actually an "act", but rather the lack of an act, so at best it is in this sense passively irresponsible. I would also make a distinction between acts that run the risk of physical bodily injury like skydiving and internal organ damage like smoking as separate categories of irresponsible behavior, although both are worth discussing in some forum, if not this one. Certainly there are a plethora of acts or non-acts that we perform every day that are irresponsible to some degree.

Now, the central component of the argument is whether or not it's okay for parents to manage their teenagers' money. I have two questions: 1) do they know you've taken drugs (i.e. bought drugs with your money)? 2) how did you earn this money?

If they don't know you've done drugs and are just managing your money because they fear you might act responsibly, that's reprehensible. Institutions reserve no right to intervene simply because they assume someone might act irresponsibly. Now, if they caught you smoking or know you do, managing your money might be an act of trying to protect their own assets (i.e. the money/time they've invested in you thus far); ergo, I can't really blame them for doing so.

Not to speak for him, but I do seem to recall that his parents are aware that he has done drugs, and I also recall that he has had some psychological issues in the past, as well as an at times strained relationship with his parents, the fault of which rested with both parties. If his parents suspected that he would use the money to buy drugs, then I don't really have a problem with it as long as he remains under their guardianship and are responsible for him.
 
For the record, I don't associate with the pot culture or consider myself a stoner. I hung out with stoners a couple times, and needless to say, the only fun part was messing with them, but that was far outweighed by the stupid shit they did like crossing the street while texting.
 
Pot's probably the most retard drug,I wish I could wake up everyday and have a nice shot of speed.Now there is a drug that should be available to every living person,Hitler and Lemmy knew the deal.Fuck meth,just nice pure,clean amphetamine,there is nothing better in this entire world and perfectly conducive to a happy healthy normal life,uless one has a weak heart that is.
 
Itunes media player is lame. For whatever reason, the audio sounds terrible. I made sure no EQ was even on but everything just sounds like mud. Also, after playing probably two songs, it automatically adjusted the tags for a couple of albums and replaced the artwork I gave them, with lower quality artwork. :confused:

I'll just stick with foobar...