The Whining and Bitching Thread

[Matt]

I firmly believe shes just a user tbh. She got tons of emotional support from me over the past year since our breakup, whenever she needed it, now that she has gotten a lot out of me, she is peacing out. I'm not terribly upset abut this, just confused as to why someone could be so cold towards someone who's been (or tried to be) a decent friend. Maybe she has erroneously construed my niceness as trying to get a second chance? I dunno.

You worry way too much about the most meaningless of things. Fuck that bitch, don't give her a second's thought.

 

[Eligos]

Yeah dude, why does it matter what she thinks of you? She's not fucking you and she wouldn't be pleasant company if you were to hang out with her at this point, so unless she knows a whole hell of a lot about car repair or cooks five star cuisine, there's no point in trying to keep anything alive between you.

Is she your Doctor Who buddy or something? That might be a third reason to keep her around.

Also, if she's the only person who will still play Halo with you online.

 

[Funerary_Doom]

Word. I don't honestly see a point in attempting a semi-close relationship with exes. Seems like its more stress than what it's worth.

 

[Vimana]

Depends on how you broke up. Obviously not if you guys hated each other by the time you stopped dating, but if you find you just didn't click enough to date, being friends is more possible.

 

[The Butt]

It was what Vimana said really. I tried to keep a friendship going cause we dated for like a month, and it just didn't work. I really liked her at the time but it just wasn't working.

 

[damnromulans]

Screw it, you have a new gf now

 

[Blind Guardian]

Don't get me wrong, the Swedes are superior to 99.99% of the world, just the Finns seem more badass, and they have better Metal. For every good Swedish band, there are 20 god awful ones.

The bad thing about Finland is that if something is backwards about Sweden, you can bet that the same thing exists in Finland too, and to a much larger extent. Finland is basically Sweden 10-15 years ago, all the time.

 

[Nephilim96]

The bad thing about Finland is that if something is backwards about Sweden, you can bet that the same thing exists in Finland too, and to a much larger extent. Finland is basically Sweden 10-15 years ago, all the time.

Example?

 

[Blind Guardian]

Example?

Hard to give just like that, but go from any mid-sized Swedish city to a Finnish one during a week and you'll notice that they lag behind in terms of public infrastructure, new architecture, cuisine range, sense of humor, clothing, etc.

 

[Cronopio]

Don't get me wrong, the Swedes are superior to 99.99% of the world, just the Finns seem more badass, and they have better Metal. For every good Swedish band, there are 20 god awful ones.

Can't argue with that.

 

[damnromulans]

I threw out my back shoveling. Was almost good to start doing deadlifts again. Guess I'll be sitting on a tennis ball forever.

 

[Onder]

Of course I fucked up the french test. One more take. Sometime during january. This subject has always been such a pain in the ass for me.

 

[Vamos]

Eh, french...they taught it back at school and I learned absolutely nothing from it. Didn't help either that practically nobody ever took that class seriously and that they changed the teacher like four times every year. The books for it were like the most expensive things ever tho.

 

[monoxide_child]

My blue-haired chef is having problems with 2 of her EXes, her current boyfriend,and her weed dealers, and none of these people know that she's occasionally doing 3-somes with me and my girl

 

[Draehl]

Re-post from my Facebook rant earlier.

While likely to offend this has been eating at me for a few weeks and must be said...
Why is nearly everyone either a) married/settled down and just boring or b) still in party mode and equally boring? I can see it in my day to day life speaking to people at work, being bored out of my mind at a party, or even just watching the type cast characters in a TV series. I know with 100% certainly I wall myself off from people off due to my eccentric interests, but I would love to be awed by even topics I know nothing about. As long as its some nitty gritty shit about how exactly you build your own bicycles or just why you use what patterns you use to knit your own sweaters. Tell me you absolutely hate my ugly ass haircut or say something politically incorrect/offensive.

Just anything, anything besides how you got shitfaced drunk or a some story about your kids I honestly don't care about despite trying. I remember when people were serious about non-serious shit. Where did that sentiment go? Its either full-on adult mode or drunken child. I like to think I haven't turned into a judgmental, pretentious ass, but that's looking more and more the case.

 

[-CC-]

Sounds like you're a couple of years away from going postal.

 

[Draehl]

Sounds about right

 

[Dak]

Interestingly (or "ironically") enough, I scare people by being able to converse on all sorts of shit that does not include my kids or drunk stories.

 

[The Ozzman]

Interestingly (or "ironically") enough, I scare people by being able to converse on all sorts of shit that does not include my kids or drunk stories.

Most people I work with talk about almost nothing but their children. It's rather annoying.

 

[damnromulans]

Re-post from my Facebook rant earlier.

While likely to offend this has been eating at me for a few weeks and must be said...
Why is nearly everyone either a) married/settled down and just boring or b) still in party mode and equally boring? I can see it in my day to day life speaking to people at work, being bored out of my mind at a party, or even just watching the type cast characters in a TV series. I know with 100% certainly I wall myself off from people off due to my eccentric interests, but I would love to be awed by even topics I know nothing about. As long as its some nitty gritty shit about how exactly you build your own bicycles or just why you use what patterns you use to knit your own sweaters. Tell me you absolutely hate my ugly ass haircut or say something politically incorrect/offensive.

Just anything, anything besides how you got shitfaced drunk or a some story about your kids I honestly don't care about despite trying. I remember when people were serious about non-serious shit. Where did that sentiment go? Its either full-on adult mode or drunken child. I like to think I haven't turned into a judgmental, pretentious ass, but that's looking more and more the case.

It's probably your shyness and/or lack of social skills, not "nearly everyone"