The Whining and Bitching Thread

Heroin is dropping people left and right here. Had a friend die I’ve known since middle school today. Literally one of the sweetest human beings I’ve ever met. An absolute pure soul and I’m having trouble even understanding. When a scumbag ODs I at least understand. Reading that the girl that burst into tears hugging me after I graduated or hugged my bulldog with both arms when she saw us out walking less than six months ago. .. I’m having a really tough time digesting.

Was with a chick awile ago for a few months that was a heroin junkie and she would not pick up or clean her place, I just wanted to drink some beers, watch DVDs and go to bed, and she needed heroin and would flip out and throw tantrums and freak out on her parents, i ran out of money and had to sell food stamps so she could get heroin, i found the entire thing a pain in the ass, she was a shoplifter also and it would sketch me out. A friend of mine on off since a kid was a heroin junkie, he did not OD, he killed himself.

I just recently got evicted from my place and was not sure why, one of my friends is a heroin junkie and I did not even know at all, i don't care what some dude does, i just don't like having problems because of another person, not sure if am going to be able to get into a place soon enough, if worse comes to worse DSS will put me in a hotel, i've lived in hotels on and off for the past 10 years. I've been thinking about certain things to figure out what fuckhead it is.
 
My brother is such a little snot. He's only a year younger than me, but he's still a little snot. He's always playing the victim re: our parents and it fuckin irks me. Are they perfect? Were they perfect? No, but they're wonderful fucking people, always let us be ourselves and follow our own drum as they did. He's getting married soon and telling people he's paying for all of it himself (both parents are putting up what money they can), he recently moved and told people he had nobody to help him (my mom gladly would have but he just burst into her condo one morning without even calling to pick up some old shit), and whenever my dad wants to be cool and offer him some manly advice he throws a mini tantrum about how he can make his own decisions. And my dad is chill as hell, like a simple smile and 'I got it pops' would be good. Really annoys me. Shit talk my momma agin bro I'll lay u the fuk out.
 
:tickled: Indeed Tea-riffic mr.Ozzman, and I would like one of those Ladies with my tea too. She is hypnotising me, I cant stop watching her.
 
The older I get, the less I want to be around anyone new.

I should make more of an effort to talk to new people at my job, but I really can't be bothered anymore. If it's not related to helping my craft, something I need while at work, or just information I need to know, I really don't give a shit. Cackling church ladies in their hats gossip, I have zero patience or time for. A bitch's gotta grade, lesson plan, call parents, and not live her own life for 180-something odd days. it sounds mean but the more time I spend listening to other people's problems, the less time I have for my actual job.
 
I doubt that. This forum is made for arguing it seems. My friends are busy too and it doesn’t help that I live so damn far from anything interesting. Get home so damn tired anyways so it evens itself out.
 
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I'm rather introverted so social interactions really take it out of me, which sucks. I'm basically the complete opposite of someone like @Master_Yoda77.

Also I have resting Ice Cube face so right off the bat I'm probably perceived to be a douche.

Me af too. Introverts expend all their energy interacting with people which is why they need time alone to recharge. Extroverts increase their energy levels by talking and interacting with people.

I feel so exhausted if I don't have sufficient time by myself to recharge on any given day.
 
Yeah exactly. Extroverts are exhausted by isolation, I have very extroverted friends who would work 3 weeks on 1 week off in the mining industry and by the end of the year would be suffering from insane bouts of depression.

Serious stuff!
 
for me, whether or not social interaction is exhausting is completely dependent on who i'm interacting with, i wouldn't say i get exhausted or anxious or whatever hanging out with like-minded people. i'm definitely introverted in the sense of loving being alone and being difficult to persuade to do anything social though. then again, in the internet age you're rarely alone in the way people used to be, you can kind of have your cake and eat it. suits me.
 
I love women and all, but finding it more and more difficult to sustain relationships with them because they require a lot of me. Today, one of the teachers that share the same kids had me walking all over the goddamn building because a kid told her to piss off. I don’t drag other people into my problems like that. She was upset, I get it, but she went and spoke to every assistant principal, our union rep, school counselor AND the principal, crying every time. Took up 80 minutes, and she wanted me to come with her. I feel like an asshole bitching about it here, but kids have called me shit and i handled it myself. Like I’m not always serious or always up to have some deep ass philosophical conversation. Sometimes just wanna talk about unimportant shit like movies music etc. Down time is recharge time. Freaking brain needs a rest.
 
Wanting to be alone isn't really being introverted if any of the psychology materials I've read are true. It's typically about whether social interactions drain you or energize you. You can be introverted and enjoy the idea of going out, you want to go out, but after said outing you need time alone to recharge mentally.
Sounds like old wainds is just a crotchety old redcoat that doesn't want to hang out with the wrong kind of douches.

My good friend irl is someone you would just assume is an introvert. Lives alone, has cats, has depression, but actually the more he's alone the worse his mental health seems to become and anytime he seems better when I see him I know he's just gone out bowling with work friends or visited his family or something.
 
Wanting to be alone isn't really being introverted if any of the psychology materials I've read are true. It's typically about whether social interactions drain you or energize you. You can be introverted and enjoy the idea of going out, you want to go out, but after said outing you need time alone to recharge mentally.
Sounds like old wainds is just a crotchety old redcoat that doesn't want to hang out with the wrong kind of douches.

makes sense. it's mostly that a) i love my alone time more than nearly everyone i know and b) i'm compatible with a pretty small range of people. i wouldn't say i have any inherent problem socialising or need recovery time generally speaking, although i do have my limits and i find if i'm on vacation for more than a few days i do start itching to get away no matter who i'm with.