The Whining and Bitching Thread
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Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
At this point I don't care which, whether I get my cake and/or eat it too.
Xorv
Drug the Priest
Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
Read Sigmund Freud. The highest pleasurable state any person experience becomes the standard to which they strive. For those who never had so high an experience, they feel less an urge to experience it.
That is why when one enters a first relationship, he is thankful just for the affection of a significant other, but when it leads to sex, that becomes a higher goal by virtue of its stronger sensation than mere affection.
That is why when one enters a first relationship, he is thankful just for the affection of a significant other, but when it leads to sex, that becomes a higher goal by virtue of its stronger sensation than mere affection.
Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
It's our biology telling us that our true purpose is to procreate, thus the physical sensations of pleasure increase the closer you come to living out that purpose. That's the same reason being in love with a person feels better than being in love with knowledge. You and I can try, as I often do, to rationalize that wisdom is the best goal, but the physical deprivations of love still regularly attack our psyche.
As for wisdom itself, it indirectly supports my biological purpose by giving me the knowledge to survive in the world and understand it.
As for wisdom itself, it indirectly supports my biological purpose by giving me the knowledge to survive in the world and understand it.
Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
Maine is the only American state that is only one syllable
anyhow, ive decided im going to cut my hair, its at nipple length and my girlfriend says that it should be what i feel is right bla bla bla. My friends give the 'you look like a girl LOL' thing while my 'metal' friends say that cutting it retared. While i love headbanging and windmilling it does get fucking irritating to wash and look after all the time.
anyhow, ive decided im going to cut my hair, its at nipple length and my girlfriend says that it should be what i feel is right bla bla bla. My friends give the 'you look like a girl LOL' thing while my 'metal' friends say that cutting it retared. While i love headbanging and windmilling it does get fucking irritating to wash and look after all the time.
Pretty much.
So I realized today that I absolutely suck at talking to people. It's not that I'm shy or that I say the wrong thing, it's just that I have trouble gauging the interest of people I'm talking to. So if someone asks me a question (about anything) I'll answer it and then give a one-sentence explanation; as it turns out, most people don't have the patience for that one sentence and aren't listening beyond the point where I answer the question, so I feel awkward. But then sometimes they are and are expecting an explanation, and so I feel like I'm being an asshole. This happens with people I don't know very well; with anyone I know well enough to say hi to or talk in class with, I have no trouble.
mutantllama
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panzerfaust666
German Asshole
MasterOLightning
Optimator
I kind of suck at the Wednesday crossword. Monday is a joke, and I usually complete Tuesday more or less. Then I get to Wednesday and only get about a quarter of the way. Too many references to foreign languages and shit. Aggravating.
He's one of the few people on this site who has never annoyed me in any way, although I rarely see his posts. A lot of people dislike him, but he's not like the pile of worthless posers who obsess over disgusting slutty women, have horrible music taste and try to be right about dumb things while not actually being able to form a cohesive argument.
Realistically, I'd probably be up for giving out advice on a variety of topics to pretty much anyone who isn't an idiot if they asked for it and I feel like I have some answers.
It isn't a problem. Let me know if you need any more advice, and I'd like to hear how things are working out for you in the future.
Zephyrus
Tyrants and Slaves
Xorv
Drug the Priest
can either zeph or gari explain why you've come to that conclusion? Are you blatantly denying your desires or is there something deeper going on here?
Xorv
Drug the Priest
*sigh* well since you're so nice and I feel I have to share with someone. I saw her today holding hands with another guy, she didn't see me though. When I saw her I never felt such emotional torment in my life before. A flood of agony as if my immediate diagnosis was death. Sure, I've been with plenty of other girls, and have been rejected and have rejected. But for some reason, I've never dealt with such blatant denial in my life. Such obvious disgust by someone who I thought different of. No care to even tell me otherwise just shun me and tell me in a subtle way, "I've found a stronger man". At least other girls I've been with had the decency to tell me something is wrong, and even end the whole ordeal properly.
I realized my faults with her today, and with beautiful women in general. It's a mental attitude that I have perceived for awhile now. As the poster before me (russ I think his name is) describes his relationship as mere luck. This in some form or another is what I did. I never looked at her and thought of myself as the prize, that I gained her by my looks, charm, skills, whatever. I just sat back in horror and at some points in disbelief that such a beauty would fancy me. That in turn showed my insecurities to her as as I feared of losing her. Stupidly not realizing to capitalize on my success. I never really acted myself around her. Showing regret if she disliked my true personality, and that in turn is what did me in. In the end tho, I became her girlfriend and drooled over her beauty and never looked at myself the same way (no pun intended)I can read women like a book sometimes (body language) and there was more to this than just distance. Women aren't going to wait for you to pull yourself together, they're not going to sit around till you get over your hesitation to break the ice. This is where the fact of the alpha male comes into play. It's not so much what you do, but more importantly how you think.
Flamers: "MAN THE BALLISTAS MEN! THIS MAN IS SPEAKING NONSENSE, DAMN TROLL."
V.V.V.V.V.
Houses Ov Mercury
I'm sorry man. That sucks.
As for me, I guess things are going maybe a bit better? I got some good signs today, some small actions this chick did that let me know she isn't playing me and which reaffirm my suspicion that she just kind of sucks at this. First of all, after class today she waited out in the hall for me even though I know she got my slightly vitriolic text message about her being a douchenozzle to me. She brought it up for a split second but I kind of changed the subject so we wouldn't dwell on it. After all, I felt that by then my point was made. So we hung out for a while and got lunch together which she invited me to do. Another good sign.
Took the bus with her to the other campus where she kind of randomly told me that she has a really good guy friend who is sometimes her "friend with benefits" which, while kind of...weird and a sort of TMI thing to say, I'm glad she came up front about. I mean, that's not attractive but it's a good indication that she is willing to come clean instead of keep potentially relationship-damaging things secrets until the unlucky find out. I also think that if I had a willing female friend who consented and was as bored as I am and I wasn't involved with anyone, I would also do the same thing as her, so I felt a little better after I put it into perspective.
After I got there I did some shit I had to do then waited for my friend to drive me home. Before he did, the chick came by where I was and sat with me for a few minutes and almost fell asleep on me. I found this kind of nice tbh; it was unexpected and it didn't feel like she was being disingenuous or anything. I was pleased in all.
During work I decided on my break I'd buy her something from Dunkins and bring it to her since as I told her, I couldn't visit my ex on breaks since she lives two states away
lol and she thought this was cute allegedly. I refused to accept her payment out of principle, obviously.
The one thing I've really decided about her is that she's really bad at communicating anywhere but face-to-face. I haven't actually talked to her on the phone though, I should get to that some time. She's also not an internet person, so she's never online. Kind of unfortunate but I'll take a chick that lives a 5 min. drive away and who never goes online versus a chick I met online who is always there but lives far as fuck away. I suppose we'll see what happens.
EPIC POST IS EPIC.
As for me, I guess things are going maybe a bit better? I got some good signs today, some small actions this chick did that let me know she isn't playing me and which reaffirm my suspicion that she just kind of sucks at this. First of all, after class today she waited out in the hall for me even though I know she got my slightly vitriolic text message about her being a douchenozzle to me. She brought it up for a split second but I kind of changed the subject so we wouldn't dwell on it. After all, I felt that by then my point was made. So we hung out for a while and got lunch together which she invited me to do. Another good sign.
Took the bus with her to the other campus where she kind of randomly told me that she has a really good guy friend who is sometimes her "friend with benefits" which, while kind of...weird and a sort of TMI thing to say, I'm glad she came up front about. I mean, that's not attractive but it's a good indication that she is willing to come clean instead of keep potentially relationship-damaging things secrets until the unlucky find out. I also think that if I had a willing female friend who consented and was as bored as I am and I wasn't involved with anyone, I would also do the same thing as her, so I felt a little better after I put it into perspective.
After I got there I did some shit I had to do then waited for my friend to drive me home. Before he did, the chick came by where I was and sat with me for a few minutes and almost fell asleep on me. I found this kind of nice tbh; it was unexpected and it didn't feel like she was being disingenuous or anything. I was pleased in all.
During work I decided on my break I'd buy her something from Dunkins and bring it to her since as I told her, I couldn't visit my ex on breaks since she lives two states away
lol and she thought this was cute allegedly. I refused to accept her payment out of principle, obviously.The one thing I've really decided about her is that she's really bad at communicating anywhere but face-to-face. I haven't actually talked to her on the phone though, I should get to that some time. She's also not an internet person, so she's never online. Kind of unfortunate but I'll take a chick that lives a 5 min. drive away and who never goes online versus a chick I met online who is always there but lives far as fuck away. I suppose we'll see what happens.
EPIC POST IS EPIC.
