Hatebreeder
Pizzicato Heartstrings
I have one friend who understands metal so I don't have to worry about him, but my other friends thinks it's not music. I respond merely by explaining to them that they are narrow-minded and explaining to them, in great detail, why metal is, in fact, music and not, as they think, mindless noise. Think I used enough comma's? 
It's chilling how a wife, child or two and a uniform of Dockers and polo shirts can take the Metal pedigree out of most anyone...sad really. A few from the old days still dig it, but by and large no, my friends don't get it at ALL. Their loss...