Possibly the worst day of my life

Penguin's right. Getting more sex is always good, but if it's going to cause any sort of grief to anyone else, and/or break the trust you have with that person, then it's usually not worth it.


Don't get me wrong, if it was someone like Kate Beckinsale, I'd cheat on anyone for her. But then I'd probably be telling my significant other about it. Daily.
 
DHIADW and the new Behemoth album are all I played today...it's helped.
good choices, i know it blows happened to a girl i know and well heres what happened.

i met her 3 weeks ago, got her number and called her. after a while i asked her out but turns out she had a boyfriend but she was breaking up with him on the other line. this dude turns out to be abusive and bi polar. so he starts crying and like im going to kill myself thanks to you, you slut but please go out with me again please please please. she gives in and says yes (theyve gone out for 6 months) but she also had feelings for me. turns out this dude was cheating on her with his ex. she breaks up but theres no problem. he got my number somehow and was like hey man if you go out with her i fucking swear ill find you and stab you to death (hes put people in the hospital before). and so basically shes back with him and i got screwed over for making her go from tears to smiling and laughing. now

kinda the same situation but i figured i could say my story here since its relevant
 
good choices, i know it blows happened to a girl i know and well heres what happened.

i met her 3 weeks ago, got her number and called her. after a while i asked her out but turns out she had a boyfriend but she was breaking up with him on the other line. this dude turns out to be abusive and bi polar. so he starts crying and like im going to kill myself thanks to you, you slut but please go out with me again please please please. she gives in and says yes (theyve gone out for 6 months) but she also had feelings for me. turns out this dude was cheating on her with his ex. she breaks up but theres no problem. he got my number somehow and was like hey man if you go out with her i fucking swear ill find you and stab you to death (hes put people in the hospital before). and so basically shes back with him and i got screwed over for making her go from tears to smiling and laughing. now

kinda the same situation but i figured i could say my story here since its relevant
Well that girl is obviously stupid. Cut your losses and move on.
 
no man, get her to do weird things for you. be like, "I'll date you if you dye your hair bright yellow and come over in a robe and wizard hat, and bring a box of condoms, lucky charms, and some fajitas."
 
of course, choosing the internet of all places, completely public to all view including the person responsible for all of this is certainly the best option for constructive achievement in this dilemma.

Naturally, if you were to find yourself having given birth to an animated cow fetus in your days, and forced to marry your mentally derranged girlfriend, you only have a few options, one of which is to fuck your neighbour from across the hall in your oddly arranged apartment block, the other is to fantasize about true love with a woman who lives in your radiator. Here, cheating, even while restricted in wedlock, is clearly the best option to maintain your own sense of sanity, which is pretty questionable if you even considered your own self-perceptions of your situation in the first place.
 
Lesa-- I'm so sorry to hear that. I don't know why people do the things they do, but I can tell you he did it because of him, not because of you. And your "best friend"? Well, she did it because of her, too. I'm thinking you perhaps should carefully consider the sort of people with which you're spending your time. Remember always that you're worth more than that. *e-hug*
 
Im sorry for what I did Lesa.
Thats why I spent all night crying, Knowing that this was going to happen.
I was going to break up with you. And tell you eventually. But what happened last night happened. I can't change that now.
I've wet the bed now I have to sleep in it. You can go on, Finish school. And find a better man than I.


As for the rest of you guys, you should understand what happened first.
before you become quick to judge. Im not gonna pretend what I did was "Rude" or an " accident". What I did was just stupid and fucked up. I've been cheated on, and I know how it hurts. Yet here I am. Living up to what I did.
Im not running or hiding, Im not pretending. Im here.
If you want to flame me than do it.

Yeeeaaah, the internet is the BEST place for this to play out.