The Anti-social (thread of course)

That's what I reffered to them as man..I call them funerals,also these mates who got married ,married the first chicks they rooted and were around 21 at the time way too young and fuck it pissed me off when the divorced cause i hated these weddings and it all seemed like a fucking waste of time to me.Lesson for all young ppl fuck as much as you can when you're younger so then it's not so much of a novelty.Probably the worst part of it though was how my mates got all high and mighty after becoming 'married men' what a fucking joke.

The people I know are married and still the same, it hasn't changed them in any way - which is maybe even worse. Well maybe for a month or two, but then? Okay, we're married, now what. How can a girl marry a man who is agressive and obviously retarded saying she wants him for the rest of her life.

Well, I don't have to care, I just thought that marriage was supposed to be something more.
 
It is what it is,it's like harrassment 'it's all about perception',things might be rosy for a while but it seems a huge risk to me.I was engaged to be married recently,she proposed to me and i've spent the past twelve months weasling my way out've it.Regarding your friend,I have no idea,i'll never understand some women.
 
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Also I can't believe you missed the humourous intention in Onder's post. Whether you thought it was funny or not, the intention couldn't have been more obvious if he'd clobbered you over the head with it.

Satan, I understand, which is why I apologized. I also appreciate the lesson on time and comparison, but I really don't see how it is obvious that he was joking or being *humorous at all.

As long as we are being grammar Nazi's Sir :wave:
 
I don't care about people who give me an angry look because I stared at their girl.

Fuck you, she's mine.
 
Satan, I understand, which is why I apologized. I also appreciate the lesson on time and comparison, but I really don't see how it is obvious that he was joking or being *humorous at all.

As long as we are being grammar Nazi's Sir :wave:

In Australia we speak the Queen's English and spell humour with a u. Humourous is actually an alternate spelling, although yes it is used much less frequently these days so I guess you can consider that a typo from me. It's nothing compared to the then/than abomination that is invading and slowly conquering grammar these days though. :wave:

I was just calling you out because quite frankly you were being a bit of a wanker, and to follow your "than" gaffe with a snide comment about how you prefer intelligence in your comedy was rather humourous.
 
YOU CANNOT USE APOSTROPHE IN "GRAMMAR NAZIS" JESUS FUCKING CHRIST LEARN ENGLISH, ONDER IS A GODDAMN FURREIGNER AND HE IS DOING BETTER THAN YOU


I never understood the mad rush to get married. Wait until you're old/settled enough to afford a nice wedding and a good place to live. If you love each other and it's not some kind of political/visa situation, your person will still be there.

I LOVE weddings though, the more the merrier. I'm currently encouraging everyone I know to get married ASAP so I can go to their weddings and hit on the ring bearer.
 
Marriage is asupposed to be a lifelong "contract", so if people are "doing it wrong", that's not marriage's fault.

At this point in my life, I am extremely amused by people who attempt to plan their life past maybe a few months. You don't know what is going to happen even by the end of the day that might change everything.

Everytime I plan things out, I get a major curveball that leaves me beter off than I could have even planned for, albeit in a totally different situation than what I planned to be in.

My wife and I did the courthouse wedding since neither our parents or us could afford a wedding, and we didn't want to deal with all that bullshit anyway.

I fucking hate all formal gatherings.
 
My fiance has been driving me nuts about setting a date to get married... but I'm not doing it until we're both working again.

Marriage isnt really that big of a deal to me (what if you end up divorced? want the kids? probably not. wont she get half your shit? divide zero by two)... I honestly dont care... but I know she wants it... and I love her... really dont see myself with anyone else, which is why I gave her a ring in the first place.
 
Yeah, i don't like formal gatherings either, much better is when two people enjoy each other for a moment and back to their private lives. I like to meet different people, go out and back whithout compromise, spend my money the best way i wish and the most important: don't feel guilty for nothing. I fell like a fuckin'g wild bird, I'M FREE AT THE END OF THE DAY.
 
Weddings are fantastic! They're better than funerals because you don't have to pretend to be sad in order to get to bond with and see people who otherwise don't come out of the woodwork. The only reason I would ever get married is so that I could have a wedding. Other than that as I have said before I'm cool with just "dating" forever.
 
That is one of my problems with the whole marriage thing,it's all for the chicks,surely no man has ever enjoyed a wedding to the extent that females do.C'mon it's time for some social reform!!
 
It's important to find out what someone wants and believes before you get too involved. As unromantic as it sounds it saves heartbreak and headaches later on if you play 20 questions with someone within the first few months you're dating them - find out if they want to get married, start a family, have gross fetishes etc. Then you can sit back and see what you are and aren't willing to compromise.

A friend of mine is in this terrible situation where she's engaged to her dream man but he is about 10 years older and REALLY wants to start a family. She doesn't want kids but she loves him and wants to be with him, but she REALLY doesn't want kids. I suggested she secretly take birth control and fake barrenness.