dorian gray
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What's hard is dividing time and attention between a 1y9m and a newborn as the older child doesn't get that mom/dad can't do whatever she wants whenever she wants, and the jealousy of course but that hasn't been bad yet...
Yup, and I think it's even worse for de wimmenz since the baby is more dependant of them than of us hunters and collectors.That was difficult for me. If my wife was napping or something and I was holding the baby and the older son wanted me to pick him up I felt guilty every time.
it's really awesome for me to see young people being excited and delighted about having kids. Strange times, strange world today, you know. I wish you lots of patience and wisdom.